You've probably had erotic dreams before. Whether you are single, in a new relationship, long-term or married - dreams in which you have sex are exciting, hot, mystical and unusual.
After them, you wonder what they meant. If you're confused about what exactly your dreams in which you've had different types of sex mean, and you're a little worried if they might be a sign that something is really wrong with your sex life, read on.
We reveal to you the meaning of some of the most common erotic dreams.
You dream about sexual relations in new, unusual positions
If you dream about having sex in new positions, it is very possible that you feel "trapped" in your sexual routine or that you haven't had many opportunities in your life to really break free and start exploring your sexuality. You probably grew up in a conservative family and subsequently had a few relationships where sexuality was monotonous. And now you miss experimenting and understanding what you really enjoy sexually. Break free in real life too, you won't regret it!
Photo: EnvatoYou dream that you are cheating on your partner or that he is cheating on you
Don't worry about getting started. Just because you dreamed about cheating, it doesn't mean that your partner is really cheating on you or that you are cheating on them. Dream deception can actually mean that you are afraid of betrayal and abandonment, or that you have experienced some other kind of "betrayal" in your life, family or work that you have not yet overcome. If you dream that you cheated on your partner and not on you, ask yourself if you are satisfied with the relationship you are in and if you are looking for an excuse to break up, but do not have the courage to do so. Maybe you lack a little more excitement about sex and want to spice it up, you can do it with the support of your partner.
Photo: EnvatoYou dream of having sex with your boss or someone from work
If you dream of having sex with your boss or someone from work, it is very likely that you really want to have his qualities or position in real life. That is, you want to be the one with more authority, control the situation and make important decisions. It can also mean that in reality you need to have a better relationship with the boss or colleague you dreamed about and that you want them to show you more respect.
Photo: EnvatoYou dream about having sex with your ex
Dreams about an ex-partner are very common, especially in the period after a breakup. The simplest explanation is simply that you miss him or you miss the sexual aspect of your relationship - because the sex was good even though the relationship wasn't. You can also have this dream if you are not satisfied with the sexuality in your new relationship and long for the sexual relations you once had. The good news is that if you dream about having sex with an ex that you know it was a good thing you broke up with - it could mean that you are finally ready to let go of that relationship and find your peace.
You dream about oral sex
Does your partner not want to satisfy you like that, but only wants you to satisfy him orally? If this is true, this dream may indicate that you have not expressed your needs clearly and are suppressing them, but in reality you are angry that you feel this "inequality" in your relationship. Therefore, it would be best to talk openly with your partner, tell him what you miss, and why he did not satisfy you orally. Maybe he's embarrassed and afraid of making a mistake - tell him that's no reason not to try.
You dream of having sex outdoors
Outdoor sex is an erotic fantasy for many, but it has a special meaning in dreams. If you dream about it, take a good look at where you are, whether there are people or not, whether you know that they are somewhere nearby. This alone can tell you a lot about where you are in your inner life right now, or whether you are overwhelmed with status and how other people perceive you.
