{"id":411596,"date":"2019-09-29T05:05:16","date_gmt":"2019-09-29T03:05:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/?post_type=article&#038;p=411596"},"modified":"2019-09-29T05:33:00","modified_gmt":"2019-09-29T03:33:00","slug":"tak-zmenek-nikoli-ne-bo-uspesen-3-napake-ki-jih-na-zmenkih-delamo-vsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/zon-date-zal-nooit-succesvol-zijn-3-fouten-die-we-allemaal-maken-tijdens-dates\/","title":{"rendered":"Zo win je hem nooit voor je: 3 datingfouten die we allemaal maken"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"content-mb-30\"><p style=\"font-weight: 700;text-transform: uppercase; font-size: 18px;\">Dating sites. Een woord dat verschillende gevoelens bij een persoon kan opwekken - van dodelijke nervositeit tot een gevoel van groot enthousiasme. Het meest stressvol zijn natuurlijk de eerste contacten, of dat nu via berichten, een telefoongesprek of tijdens een live meeting is. Tegenwoordig, nu onze slimme apparaten bijna verlengstukken van ons lichaam zijn en we mensen kunnen leren kennen voordat we ze zien via dating-apps, lijkt het erop dat er overal kansen zijn om je soulmate te vinden. Maar weten we hoe we ze op de juiste manier kunnen gebruiken?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"block-da-1 block-da block-da-post_middle_content clearfix content-mb-30\"><div class=\"add-space-b1\"><div class=\"iAdserver\" data-iadserver-zone=\"1742\" data-no-translation><script async>_ipromNS(\"zone\",1742)<\/script><\/div><\/div><\/div><p>Onderzoek naar online dating-apps <a href=\"https:\/\/pof.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Genoeg vis<\/strong><\/a>, waaraan tweeduizend alleenstaanden deelnamen, toonde aan dat het meest stressvolle voor velen bij online daten de manier is waarop ze zichzelf op hun profiel aan anderen presenteren. Ze willen zichzelf laten zien <strong>als buitengewoon interessant en aantrekkelijk<\/strong>, ook al voelen ze dat niet echt, maar tegelijkertijd verwachten ze dat anderen vanaf het eerste contact eerlijk en direct tegen hen zijn. In het onderzoek kwamen ze tot drie belangrijke bevindingen op basis van de fouten die veel mensen maken.<br \/>\n<div class=\"su-button-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/clanek\/samo-15-minut-casa-imate-na-voljo-da-si-prisluzite-se-en-zmenek-kaj-ljudi-odbija\/\" class=\"su-button su-button-style-flat su-button-wide\" style=\"color:#ffffff;background-color:#438d47;border-color:#367139;border-radius:0px;-moz-border-radius:0px;-webkit-border-radius:0px\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color:#ffffff;padding:8px 24px;font-size:18px;line-height:27px;border-color:#7cb07f;border-radius:0px;-moz-border-radius:0px;-webkit-border-radius:0px;text-shadow:none;-moz-text-shadow:none;-webkit-text-shadow:none\"><i class=\"sui sui-hand-pointer-o\" style=\"font-size:18px;color:#ffffff\"><\/i> U HEBT SLECHTS 15 MINUTEN OM NOG EEN DATUM TE VERDIENEN. Wat schrikt mensen af?<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<h3>1. Is het plaatsen van je beste foto echt zo belangrijk?<\/h3>\n<p>De meeste mensen besteden veel tijd aan het kiezen van de beste foto bij het maken van hun profiel op datingapps. Het soort waarin ze er ongelooflijk mooi, aantrekkelijk en zelfverzekerd uitzien, ook al hebben ze zich maar \u00e9\u00e9n keer zo verkleed voor de bruiloft van hun beste vriend, maar meestal zijn ze compleet anders. Uit het onderzoek bleek dat de moeite om de best mogelijke foto te vinden onnodig is, aangezien maar liefst 65%-mensen meer informatie over een individu waarderen dan foto&#039;s. <strong>Langere beschrijving in profiel<\/strong> het zou namelijk uw kansen moeten vergroten dat mensen u willen leren kennen.<\/p><p><div class=\"block-da-1 block-da block-da-post_middle_content da-style-1 clearfix\"><div class=\"add-space-b2\"><div class=\"iAdserver\" data-iadserver-zone=\"1744\" data-no-translation><script async>_ipromNS(\"zone\",1744)<\/script><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p><p><div class=\"inline-post clearfix\"><div class=\"see-also byline\">Zie ook<\/div><div id=\"block-wrap-51852\" class=\"block-wrap-native block-wrap block-wrap-23 block-css-51852 block-wrap-classic columns__m--1 elements-design-1 block-ani block-skin-0 tipi-box block-wrap-thumbnail ppl-m-1 clearfix\" data-id=\"51852\" data-base=\"0\"><div class=\"tipi-row-inner-style clearfix\"><div class=\"tipi-row-inner-box contents sticky--wrap\"><div class=\"block block-23 clearfix\"><article class=\"tipi-xs-12 clearfix with-fi ani-base tipi-xs-typo split-1 split-design-1 loop-0 preview-thumbnail preview-23 elements-design-1 post-665183 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-partnerstvo tag-osebna-rast tag-partnerski-odnosi current-post-id-665183 ads-enabled\" style=\"--animation-order:0\"><div class=\"preview-mini-wrap clearfix\"><div class=\"mask\"><a href=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/ik-ben-niet-langer-jouw-reserve-vroeg-of-laat-ontgroeien-we-mensen-die-alleen-van-ons-houden-wanneer-het-hen-uitkomt\/\" class=\"mask-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2149456728-100x100.webp\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2149456728-100x100.webp 100w, 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data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"2149456728\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Foto: Freepik&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2149456728-660x439.webp\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2149456728-902x600.webp\" data-no-translation=\"\" \/><\/a><\/div><div class=\"meta\"><div class=\"byline byline-2 byline-cats-design-1\"><div class=\"byline-part cats\"><a href=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/category\/welzijn\/partnerstvo\/\" class=\"cat\">Vennootschap<\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"title-wrap\"><h3 class=\"title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/ik-ben-niet-langer-jouw-reserve-vroeg-of-laat-ontgroeien-we-mensen-die-alleen-van-ons-houden-wanneer-het-hen-uitkomt\/\">Ik ben niet langer jouw reserve: vroeg of laat ontgroeien we mensen die alleen van ons houden wanneer het hen uitkomt.<\/a><\/h3><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/article><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_411598\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-411598\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"411598\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/zon-date-zal-nooit-succesvol-zijn-3-fouten-die-we-allemaal-maken-tijdens-dates\/apostolos-vamvouras-rnoslaw80b8-unsplash\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/apostolos-vamvouras-rnoslaw80b8-unsplash-e1569666879109.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2456,3684\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"apostolos-vamvouras-RNoslAw80b8-unsplash\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Photo by Apostolos Vamvouras on Unsplash&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Raje kot popolno fotografijo, objavite dalj\u0161i opis!&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/apostolos-vamvouras-rnoslaw80b8-unsplash-660x990.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/apostolos-vamvouras-rnoslaw80b8-unsplash-1000x500.jpg\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-411598\" src=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/apostolos-vamvouras-rnoslaw80b8-unsplash-660x990.jpg\" alt=\"Plaats een langere beschrijving in plaats van een volledige foto!\" width=\"660\" height=\"990\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-411598\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Plaats een langere beschrijving in plaats van een volledige foto!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>2. Alle kaarten op tafel, zelfs de slechte<\/h3>\n<p>Het is normaal dat iedereen zichzelf in eerste instantie wil presenteren als de beste versie van zichzelf aan een potenti\u00eble partner, maar het is zelfs nog gemakkelijker om jezelf online verkeerd voor te stellen. Is dat echt het slimste om te doen? 84%-deelnemers zeiden van wel <strong>hoor het liefst vanaf het begin de tekortkomingen van een potenti\u00eble partner<\/strong>. Als er iets ernstigs uit deze relatie zou voortkomen, is het daarom beter om te weten wat ons te wachten staat en om vanaf het begin te beoordelen of u de negatieve kant van uw partner kunt tolereren. We zijn allemaal gewoon mensen die (vaak) fouten maken, dus we hoeven niet perfect te zijn, want onze partner zal dat ook niet zijn.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Authenticiteit is beter dan nep-enthousiasme.<\/h3>\n<p>In het onderzoek ontdekten ze dat 27%-deelnemers een bepaalde hobby of interesse liever verbergen, omdat ze denken dat dit onaantrekkelijk zou zijn voor een partner. Maar feit is dat het plat is <strong>het verbergen van je ware zelf kan onaantrekkelijker zijn dan de waarheid.<\/strong> Singles in de enqu\u00eate zeiden dat ze zich het beste voelen als ze aan het daten zijn, als ze iets doen waar ze goed in zijn of praten over iets waar ze van houden. Op dat moment is ieder individu het meest in zijn element en komt zijn persoonlijkheid meer tot zijn recht dan wanneer hij zich voordoet als iemand die hij niet is.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_411608\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-411608\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"411608\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/zon-date-zal-nooit-succesvol-zijn-3-fouten-die-we-allemaal-maken-tijdens-dates\/freestocks-org-y3wqowuqxnc-unsplash\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/freestocks-org-y3wqowuqxnc-unsplash-e1569668003104.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2375,1584\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"freestocks-org-Y3wqowUQXnc-unsplash\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Photo by freestocks.org on Unsplash&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Skrivanje svojega pravega jaza je lahko bolj neprivla\u010dno kot pa resnica.&lt;\/p&gt;\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/freestocks-org-y3wqowuqxnc-unsplash-660x440.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/freestocks-org-y3wqowuqxnc-unsplash-1000x500.jpg\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-411608\" src=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/freestocks-org-y3wqowuqxnc-unsplash-660x440.jpg\" alt=\"Het verbergen van je ware zelf kan onaantrekkelijker zijn dan de waarheid.\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-411608\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Het verbergen van je ware zelf kan onaantrekkelijker zijn dan de waarheid.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dus wat is het recept voor succesvol daten? <strong>Wees wie je bent!<\/strong>\u00a0Daten gaat over elkaar leren kennen: de goede en slechte kanten. Als er sprake is van bedrog, zal de relatie niet oprecht zijn en op de lange termijn niet werken. Dus ontspan en straal in wie je bent, zelfs als je nooit helemaal weet hoe je spaghetti moet koken, en als je nog steeds met het licht aan slaapt. Wie weet slaapt jouw toekomstige partner ook met het licht aan.<br \/>\n<div class=\"su-button-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/nl\/clanek\/10-idej-za-zelo-nenavaden-prvi-zmenek\/\" class=\"su-button su-button-style-flat su-button-wide\" style=\"color:#ffffff;background-color:#438d47;border-color:#367139;border-radius:0px;-moz-border-radius:0px;-webkit-border-radius:0px\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color:#ffffff;padding:8px 24px;font-size:18px;line-height:27px;border-color:#7cb07f;border-radius:0px;-moz-border-radius:0px;-webkit-border-radius:0px;text-shadow:none;-moz-text-shadow:none;-webkit-text-shadow:none\"><i class=\"sui sui-hand-pointer-o\" style=\"font-size:18px;color:#ffffff\"><\/i> 10 IDEE\u00cbN VOOR EEN ZEER ONGEBRUIKELIJKE EERSTE DATUM<\/span><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Zmenkarije. Beseda, ki v lahko v posamezniku prebudi razli\u010dna ob\u010dutja &#8211; od smrtne nervoze do ob\u010dutka velikega navdu\u0161enja. Najbolj stresni so seveda prvi stiki, pa naj bo to preko sporo\u010dil, telefonskega pogovora ali pri snidenju v \u017eivo. Danes, ko so na\u0161e pametne naprave skorajda podalj\u0161ki na\u0161ega telesa in ko lahko preko aplikacij za zmenkarije spoznamo osebe preden jih vidimo, se zdi, da so prilo\u017enosti za najdbo svoje sorodne du\u0161e na vsakem koraku. Pa jih znamo pravilno izkoristiti?<\/p>","protected":false},"author":65,"featured_media":411600,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ep_exclude_from_search":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14653],"tags":[11842,13857,12051],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v22.0 (Yoast SEO v22.0) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Tako ga nikoli ne bo\u0161 osvojila: 3 napake, ki jih na zmenkih delamo vsi | City Magazine<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Zmenkarije. Beseda, ki v lahko v posamezniku prebudi razli\u010dna ob\u010dutja - od smrtne nervoze do ob\u010dutka velikega navdu\u0161enja. Najbolj stresni so seveda prvi stiki, pa naj bo to preko sporo\u010dil, telefonskega pogovora ali pri snidenju v \u017eivo. 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