{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"\u57ce\u5e02\u6742\u5fd7","provider_url":"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/zh","author_name":"An\u017ee Pompe","author_url":"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/zh\/author\/anzepompe\/","title":"Kaj vse se spremeni v razmerju, ko smo v zvezi dlje \u010dasa?","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"gcJi5u39Yf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/zh\/\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u604b\u7231\u65f6\u95f4\u5f88\u957f\u65f6\uff0c\u8fd9\u6bb5\u5173\u7cfb\u4f1a\u53d1\u751f\u54ea\u4e9b\u53d8\u5316\/\">\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u957f\u671f\u5904\u4e8e\u4e00\u6bb5\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u65f6\uff0c\u5173\u7cfb\u4f1a\u53d1\u751f\u4ec0\u4e48\u53d8\u5316\uff1f<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/citymagazine.si\/zh\/\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u604b\u7231\u65f6\u95f4\u5f88\u957f\u65f6\uff0c\u8fd9\u6bb5\u5173\u7cfb\u4f1a\u53d1\u751f\u54ea\u4e9b\u53d8\u5316\/embed\/#?secret=gcJi5u39Yf\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"\u300a Kaj vse se spremeni v razmerju, ko smo v zvezi dlje \u010dasa? \u300b\u2014City Magazine\" data-secret=\"gcJi5u39Yf\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/citymagazine.si\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/parirazmerje.jpg?fit=1000%2C600&ssl=1","thumbnail_width":1000,"thumbnail_height":600,"description":"Kaj vse se spremeni v razmerju, ko smo v zvezi dlje \u010dasa? Ljubezen in zaljubljenost sta dve razli\u010dni stanji. Zaljubljenost pomeni, da se zaljubimo v podobo ne\u010desa, po \u010demer hrepenimo. Zaljubimo se v podobo \u010dloveka, za katerega si \u017eelimo, da bi bil tak, kot ga vidimo mi. Ljubezen pa prevzame krmilo (ali pa tudi ne), ko svet nehamo gledati skozi ro\u017ena o\u010dala, ko ta \u010dlovek ni ve\u010d popolna projekcija na\u0161ih pri\u010dakovanj in v razmerje vstopi resni\u010dnost. Zato sta novo in dolgotrajno razmerje dve povsem diametralni sliki. Poglejte si primerjavo med \u0161e sve\u017eo zvezo in zvezo, ki traja \u017ee dlje \u010dasa. Bo kar dr\u017ealo, kajne."}