There is no shortage of literature when it comes to the first date. A first date is something wonderful, but at the same time something scary. If we strip it down to its essence, it is the preparation of the ground for the second, which mostly takes place according to established norms. A drink, maybe a movie and pattern questions. The first date is an initial feeling, but in principle not the one that leads between the sheets, but rather a reconnaissance of the other.
An emotional carousel, advice, commandments... when all of this is heaped upon us at the same time, it's no wonder that we succumb to pressure and expectations the first date. It is nothing new to find ourselves in the middle of a verbal desert, because in this emotional tirade we cannot even hear our own thoughts. Learning questions or these it is therefore our survival, instinctive, that comes to mind defense mechanism and therefore something completely normal. Like homework. Spontaneity, which is otherwise so desired and expected, namely they paralyze emotions, which mask our true selves. Many times they are also to blame for this circumstances, which instead of lowering the tension, inflate it the awkwardness of the situation. Anyway, this movie was on our minds already at home. Butterflies in the stomach joins most of the time worming. That's why sometimes it's wise to approach things a little differently, by focus it shifts from creating an impression to an event that spontaneously brings your self to the surface. All too often, hope is placed in correct choice of sentences or words, a secret ingredient what makes a successful first date really is the circumstances in which it takes place, and you'll get to know some of them below.
1. The grocery store challenge
This first date idea has an element of competition. Go to the bigger one grocery store (e.g. Spar, Mercator or Tuš), separate (yes, already on the first date) by approx 10 to 15 minutes and in the meantime choose things to give each other on a first date. Time is not the only limitation, for him or you should not spend more than 15 euros. Once you fill up the basket, the date really just begins. And then you'll see if there's another one waiting for you basket this day or not.
2. Picnic under the stars
A picnic is something special in itself, but if home-packaged food add the darkness, the Milky Way and the Moon, it will also be awkward and deafening silence became romantic.
3. Triathlon date
We don't mean a combination of swimming, running and cycling here, but you can do that too. We got the name just because combinations of three different things, which you specify. It can be a combination of drinks, cinema and a walk, or rollerblading, ice cream and jumping into the sea. Personalize your date, don't do what everyone else is doing.
4. Breakfast dinner
Why wouldn't you dinner menu changed the breakfast menu. A piece of bread, butter and jam, instead of a tortilla and guacamole.
5. Voluntary work
On the first date, we want to present ourselves in the most beautiful light, and what if not a little voluntary work, will expose you more the real me. Choose a cause and you are in place tables in the restaurant reserve a place in the volunteer campaign.
6. Take a tour of the brewery or taste the wines
Considering it's a drink constant companion dating, it makes no sense to take her out of the equation. But don't just think of it as an angle mask of moments and peeler of fear. Visit a brewery or a winery. Ultimately you the truth is hidden in the wine, and that way you'll get to quite a few of them without stumbling home at the end of the day (because you won't be able to leave a good impression when you're drunk). If anything, they will fall into bed drunk with love.
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7. Make the date a day
Night has its power, but even the day has it. Perhaps the night is more romantic at first glance and hides more shortcomings, a closes the door to potentially very interesting dates, as the door is e.g. museums, galleries and zoos then locked.
8. Sign up for a course or workshop
Go to a short course together: cooking, painting, knitting workshop or something else. This will break the ice, as you will not feel isolated and alone in the middle of the clearing (read on the other side of the table with no topic to talk about). More relaxed environment will just take your date, you just have to show up there.
9. "Fox hunting"
Something Scouting it never hurts in life and can also be used on a date. Prepare instructions, which lead to where you will have dinner, drink a cocktail or watch a movie. And let it be until the end shrouded in mystery. They say it's the journey, not the destination, and this is living proof.
10. They visit a fortune teller
More as a joke than for real, go together on palmistry, from tarot cards … And don't let the clairvoyant prediction affect you future, but let it be just a one-time memory of the first date. Because we are the end of the world tailors of their own destiny. 10 % life is what actually happens to us 90 % but how we react to it.
11. Create
Maybe that doesn't seem like enough "noble", a noblesse is not created just by paying for a good dinner or wine, because it can remarkable impression leave also with when together they create from wood, when they draw, etc. It may not be a masterpiece, but you will each get your own an unforgettable souvenir.
