At a young age, girls often make sacrifices for love, but fortunately this is followed by a time of maturity when women begin to value themselves more and live by their values.
Ordinary relationships are rarely described in literature and art. They are too "ordinary" and "uninteresting". What deserves a place in art is such complicated love triangles, drama, love, full sacrifice, etc. Many young girls are so convinced that love is based on suffering, longing, waiting and endless patience with all kinds of inconvenience and neglect from partners.
In almost all the works, the heroine falls in love with the "bad boy", the one who mocks her, despises her, but in the end falls in love with her and turns into a prince. However, the reality is different: the "bad body" from the beginning of the story never turns into a prince, but remains a "bad boy".
But when mature years come and when a woman realizes that men come and go, she will understand that love is not a need for someone to make you happy, but that the relationship is mutual.
10 things a mature woman will not allow in a relationship
1. She will never go to games if she doesn't really like it. She won't listen to music or go to restaurants where she doesn't feel comfortable just because "her man likes to go there." She knows it's perfectly fine to go there with friends and have her own way of having fun.
2. She will never wait for her husband to "entertain" her, organize his time... She knows that each of them has their own needs and that it is perfectly fine for her to go for a walk or have a coffee with her friend while he watches TV at home.
3. It does not forgive neglect. Her partner should remember her birthday, anniversary, any important date - because it means he respects her and respects the time they spend together.
4. She will never be silent about what she doesn't like or doesn't like. She will say what she thinks if she can - she will improve the relationship as much as she can.
5. She will never condone a man who insults or hurts a woman, who drinks or takes drugs, gambles or lives inappropriately.
6. He is not afraid of direct questions. Before getting married, she will "clean up" everything and enter the marriage without baggage or taboo topics.
7. A mature woman will never stay in a relationship that suffocates her with a man who doesn't love her.
8. She will not tolerate her partner's sick jealousy, especially if she has no reason for it.
9. A mature woman understands that love is important to marriage, as well as sexuality, and that should never change.
10. A mature woman will never physically change for a man because she knows that a man must love her for her personality and not for her looks.
