Are you constantly texting him? Are you already acting almost as if you were his mother? Are you choking him? Give him a break from you and the crazy world? Do you want to have it with you all the time?
Love is beautiful, but people do strange things because they are afraid that the person they love will leave. Through these actions, they don't even think that they can lose them because of them.
Let's see what all people do in their obsessive control over love. If you find yourself in these actions, imagine!
1. You constantly compare yourself to his exes
You worry if he is happier now than he was in the past. You are worried if he prefers you to his ex-partner. You wonder if he's already done everything they do with her. Are you better than her? The comparisons are endless. It's slowly killing you.
2. You are afraid of losing him
You are afraid that he will leave you because of one of your mistakes. You are afraid that the smallest quarrel will turn into a breakup of the relationship. You fear that any confrontation will destroy the relationship. And you are silent and accept everything good and bad without words.
3. You text him constantly
Although you don't want to limit or stifle it, you are stifling it and pushing it away from you. You simply want to remind him that you care. You want him to know that you will always be there for him. That you don't go anywhere, that he can trust you. Stop it. You will scare him!
4. You are overprotective
You are jealous of all the people around him. If someone texts him late at night or touches him while you're out drinking, get angry. You own it. Is this really love?
You text him constantly. Photo: Bruno Emmanuelle/Unsplash5. You keep asking him if he loves you
You are afraid that he will wake up and decide to leave you. You need confirmation of his feelings every day. You want to make sure that he still loves you as much today as he did the day before.
6. You keep asking him if something is wrong
You want to make sure you're still making him happy. You want to make sure that your relationship is still perfect. You want to make sure that there is no one else in his life, that you are his only thought.
7. You spend hours preparing for a date
You want to look your best for him. You want to impress him. You want him to be excited about what he sees.
8. You act like everything is fine, even when it isn't
You don't want to start drama. You don't want to complain. You keep quiet about your problems because you don't want to ruin your time with him by being pessimistic. Is that true, okay?
9. Let him make most of the decisions
You sacrifice yourself for him. Let him do what he wants. You care more about whether he is happy than you are. It makes decisions for you. Wake up, where has your life gone?
You want to chain him to you with sex. Photo: We Vibe Wow Tech / Unsplash10. You constantly want sex
Just so he wouldn't find another woman. You know very well that this is not the right reason to be intimate with someone, but you want to make them happy, and it seems to you that this is the only way to achieve your goal. You don't even know what love is. You don't know what a real intimate relationship is, based on respect, tenderness and trust.
11. He doesn't respect you
You don't want to complain about anything. Even though you don't care when he doesn't answer your text, when he doesn't answer for days, weeks, because you don't want to lose him. You don't want to upset him. So settle for less than you deserve. This is not a partnership. This is manipulation!
Dear woman, gather strength, if you don't believe you have it, you have it inside you and leave such a man!
