How to gently flirt?
Mastering the art of subtle seduction is the best way to make the first move without being obvious. If falling in love is your ultimate goal, learning about subtle flirting will be a fun way to win over your future Mr. or Mrs. Right.
By following these simple (but effective) tips and tricks, you'll grab attention and make the right impression.
Let's take a look at these 11 amazing tips - everything you need to know about how to win over a man or woman.
1. Be shy, don't throw yourself at their feet
Also, if you've known this person for a long time, don't be too obvious. This can put them off.
Try to be different and stand out from the crowd. People appreciate the effort.
2. It's all about eye contact...
Prolonged eye contact will never go out of style. This is respectful and also shows the person that you have their attention.
3. ... and body language
Don't cross your arms, tap your feet or keep your head down, instead smile, stand tall, keep your hands by your side and keep your facial expressions under control. You will be surprised how much this affects the first impression.
4. Self-esteem
Finding the right balance between overconfidence and underconfidence can be tricky. All you have to do is act like you are with family and close friends. Be yourself, but don't act superior.
5. Take every opportunity to ask them a question
How are you? What are your passions? What have you always been interested in [insert their area of interest]?
Questions help you start a conversation. At the beginning of a date (or wherever you are), the first few minutes will always be awkward. Don't stress too much. But after the initial nervousness wears off, think about a few things you'd like to know about them. Asking thought-provoking questions will challenge their views of you.
6. Be close, but be mindful of their personal space
Do not force the person, give them their personal space. How would you feel if your interlocutor was looking you in the face from a few centimeters all the time, you would feel uncomfortable, wouldn't you? Give them room to breathe. You can have the most pleasant and sensual conversation without feeling each other's breath all the time.
7. Don't forget to smile
A smile is reassuring and let's be honest, it's nice to see. Talking to someone with an indifferent expression on their face is almost worse than seeing them frown. You can bet you won't see them again if you can't crack a smile and laugh at their silly jokes. Help yourself with a smile, just be careful not to overdo it and look like a fool.
8. Treat them with respect
It's not your best friend that you can say whatever you want knowing they'll never take it personally. This is not a family member that you can just shrug off and do whatever you want knowing they will still be there.
This is someone you want to win over and bring into your life, so act accordingly. Be respectful and no low blow jokes (they won't know it's just your way of breaking the ice).
9. Don't pretend to be someone you're not
People always recognize that. Besides, isn't it so much easier to just be who you are? Introduce them to something you like and avoid pretending to be into things you never do (or eat). Keeping up with your own white lies can be exhausting. If they don't like you for who you are, that's their problem!
10. Praise
Did you know that compliments trigger the same area of the brain as when you receive money? So if you have something nice to say, say it. People will always remember your kind words and actions. You might even make their day with a sincere compliment.
11. Be unpredictable
Don't do what is expected of you. Think outside the box. Go somewhere you wouldn't normally go on a date. Talk about something other than just your life. Show them that you're open-minded by being completely and irresistibly unpredictable in every possible way. Find the right balance of confidence while letting them feel comfortable around you.
