Singleness is not the same as loneliness and these 12 things every single woman should know!
People spend a lot of time thinking about what our lives should be like at a certain age and what we should have achieved by then. But we especially stress when it comes to our love life. But is it really worth it? We present to you 12 Things Every Single Woman Should Know!
1. We haven't met the right person yet
Many people find themselves in unhappy relationships in life. They were satisfied with their partner only because they did not want to be alone or because others expected them to have someone. Which is completely pointless. If we are currently single, it only means that we have not met the right person for us yet, which does not mean that we never will. Love is full of surprises and can hit us regardless of age.
2. We can do whatever we want
If you want to party until four in the morning or if you want to lie in bed all day and watch series, you can do it without anyone chasing you. When we're in a relationship, we have to adapt to our partner, so we can't always just do what we want.
3. We can see whoever we want
Married people and those in relationships will have to "look" at each other for the rest of their lives. But if we are single, we can meet and date multiple people whenever we want. If it suits us, we can also meet five potential lovers in one day. Until we find someone who stands out.
4. We can spend all our free time with friends
Since we don't have a partner to spend most of our time with, we have more of it for our family and friends. We can also devote more time to our work or hobbies that make us happy.
5. We don't have to share a bed
The beauty of being single is that we have our bed all to ourselves and can stretch out on it far and wide without getting in anyone's way. A good night's sleep is worth a lot.
6. We can have sex whenever and with whomever we want
Since we don't have a partner to be faithful to, we can have one-night stands whenever it suits us, or we can have friends with benefits. Of course, we must always take care of safety.
7. We can wear whatever we want
We don't have to try to look solid for our partner, but we can throw on our ugliest sweater and dirty pants and spend days in them if we want to. We can also go out with our friends dressed (too) daringly, without anyone telling us that it would be better if we wore a slightly longer skirt.
8. We can stay friends with our exes
Most new partners don't like us still hanging out with our exes, and some even forbid us to do so. Since we are single, socializing with ex-partners is not a problem, but of course we have to assess for our own mental health whether we have gotten over our ex-partner and whether we are ready for a friendly relationship.
9. We don't need to shave and wax all the time
Is there any need for further explanation? Hallelujah.
10. We can still have children
Even if we are single in our thirties, our biological clock still hasn't ticked, so we don't have to worry about children for quite some time. It is better to find the right partner in due time and have a successful relationship and children with him, than to choose the wrong one too quickly and then deal with shared custody.
11. We don't have to share anything
When we're single, we don't have to share anything. We will be able to spread the pizza we order ourselves, no one will steal our fries, and no one will borrow our things and then put them somewhere else.
12. We don't have to worry about divorce or separation
Relationships are often stressful and many things can go wrong. So we can be left alone overnight with a broken heart and possibly two children. When we're single, we don't have those worries.
These are just some of the reasons why we should not burden ourselves if we are still single, regardless of age. Life is too short to worry about such things. Let's rather enjoy small moments and we make the best out of every situation.