When it comes to partnerships and interpersonal relationships, we often wonder how some people can get involved with others. We wonder why they don't just walk away if they're not happy, and hopefully they appreciate their partner if they've hit it off, so to speak. Where is the normal limit, when it is necessary to evaluate a healthy relationship, it is sometimes difficult to determine, but we can ask ourselves how good the person we are in a relationship with is. This time, we have compiled a list of qualities that testify to how good a man is in a relationship with a woman, or what are the signs that show that we are in a relationship with the right man. Of course, these traits and signs also apply to women. For a healthy and good relationship, both of you have to make an effort.
1. A real man will never let us forget how much he loves us.
A person should feel loved, wanted and appreciated in life. This is an important piece of the puzzle and the right man or woman will always remind us how much we mean to them.
2. A real man always supports us.
Regardless of our desires, whether we want to go back to school or start a singing career, the right man will always support us. He won't try to discourage us or accidentally tell us we can't do it. He will be with us through victories and defeats.
3. A real man can inspire us.
In order to inspire someone, it takes a lot of effort, because we have to look at how we live and how others live. And somewhere halfway, we can only encourage our partner with our ambitions and passions.
4. A real man will strive to earn our trust.
A real man will want us to be comfortable in our relationship with him and to feel confident around him. And the foundation of that is trust. Without trust, there is neither love nor respect.
5. The right man will always make us feel that we are wonderful.
A real man will understand that in order to make us feel wonderful, we need more than just words. The way he looks at us, the way he touches us and the way he treats us will be the right way to make us feel truly beautiful. He will notice when we put effort into our appearance and we will be attractive to him even when we do not put any special effort into our appearance.
6. The right man will give us a sense of security.
One of the nicest or best compliments a woman can give her partner is to tell him that she feels safe with him. No matter how much we're attracted to a man or how witty he is and how much money he has, none of that matters without a sense of security.
7. A real man also pays attention to small things.
A real man will remember that we mentioned a while ago how we want to go to the exhibition in the city and will make sure that we get there. He will also pop over to the pharmacy for us when we are stuck at work. No matter how small these actions seem to us, he will understand that these are important things to us and that will mean the most to us.
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8. A real man knows where the boundaries are.
It is normal for us to have disagreements and arguments, but there is no reason for things to become abusive and there is never any reason for verbal or physical abuse to occur. A real man will remain calm and focus on the subject of the disagreement.
9. A real man is always trying to improve himself.
Whether it's learning new things, exploring a new field or skill, reading a new book or watching a documentary - a real man can always boast of a constant striving to improve himself, his own self. Although he will do these things for himself, it will have a benefit and a positive impact on our relationship as well.
10. A real man knows that actions speak louder than words.
A real man will understand that people with empty promises do not deserve respect. People who keep their promises like him, and he will be one of them.
11. A real man will open up to us without any worries.
For some people this is very difficult, it is difficult for them to express their emotions, fears and deepest desires. But if we have the right person by our side, they often help us to open up to them. A real man knows that it is always necessary to keep some things to himself, but he will not hide his feelings from us because he knows that this will cause tension and frustration.
12. A real man will always be honest with us.
When building the foundation for a happy and healthy relationship, a real man will know that honesty is the only way to go.
13. A real man will make sure that we are never ashamed of our honesty.
Comfort in a relationship comes from being able to be open and honest with your partner – and the ability to do that comes from knowing that they will never judge us. A real man will encourage us to open up and share our feelings with him. We should never be afraid or ashamed before Him.
14. A real man will never be abusive.
This is perhaps the most important point. Be it mental, emotional or physical insults - a real man will never even think of being abusive towards us or harming us in any way. If something like this happens to us, let's have courage and self-respect and leave before it's too late.
15. The real man will stay with us.
When a man devotes his love and time to just one woman, he doesn't care about rules or circumstances. You will experience good and bad moments, challenges and unexpected situations. But the right man will stay by our side and be our partner and friend in good times and bad.
Let's not forget that if we have such a real man by our side, we should never take him for granted. Let's tell him how much we appreciate him. It doesn't matter how nice someone can be - there is no emptier feeling in the world than the feeling of knowing that someone takes us for granted.
Adapted and adapted from:
jamesmsama.com
