You don't need a magic wand or some "popular" magic to make a man fall in love with you.
It's actually easier than you think, at least according to what relationship counselors say. Let's see.
If you want him to love you, stop chasing him
What you need to do is allow the man to "roll up" his sleeves and earn your affection and respect. Men love to take care of women - when they can serve a woman, they feel valuable and real men.
When you run after a man and only you maintain the relationship, you take away his need for responsibility and desire to satisfy you. Most men don't feel comfortable with a woman doing all the work. They either become lazy about deepening the relationship because they aren't sure exactly where they fit in the relationship, or they leave.
Say what you mean and mean what you say
He will love you the fastest if you earn his respect and admiration. You need to set boundaries and stick to them.
Don't think about what and how to say it, and don't be afraid that he will leave you because of something you said. If you want to spend more time together, for example, to hear from each other more often, just tell him so. It is always best to be honest, open and direct.
Stop talking and start listening
We usually have a lot "on our shoulders" and want to tell a man almost all our problems. But men need to talk too. This is what we often miss - for men to (inter)talk.
A man will never say: "Can you listen to me?" Toda nevertheless wants you to listen to him when he says something or when he needs advice. You need to stop what you are doing (phone calls, nail polish, ironing) and pay attention to it.
So always keep in mind that he wants to talk too. If you give him that, he will appreciate you even more and he will definitely love you.
If you want him to love you, then you have to love yourself
The more you love each other, the more he will love you. There are few women who have a high level of self-confidence (men are not to blame for this, but society as a whole). No matter how you lose your confidence, you have to fall back in love with that attractive woman you see when you look in the mirror!
Feeling self-loathing is not attractive at all. A low level of self-love not only affects your well-being, but it can also drive a man away from you. If you don't have a good opinion of yourself, can you expect others to respect you?
If you constantly expect him to give you a compliment or praise you, he will soon start to feel as if he has to do it out of obligation. After a while, he will no longer enjoy doing this.
