Each eye has its own painter. And while this saying is certainly undeniably true, culture constantly educates us to look for specific, often stereotypical, and not really that important traits in romantic partners. Women want a tall, strong and brave man, and the latter a beautiful, thin and confident woman. But anyone who has ever been in a serious and intimate romantic relationship can tell you that there are many other qualities that are more successful for a happy partner relationship. What actions tell you that you have a dream person by your side?
Everyone has some ideas about what kind of partner does he want. We often describe a dream partner mainly by his/her physical characteristics and what we find attractive. However, there are many other things that are important in a long-term romantic relationship that have nothing to do with muscles or long legs.
5 actions that tell you that you have a dream person by your side:
He/she is committed.
If your partner is committed to the relationship, it is also clear to him/her that there will be disputes and disagreements between you, which you will have to overcome. Commitment also means that he sees you, listens to you and lets you be who you are.
Emotional stability
Partners who are emotionally more stable, are less likely to be jealous and more easily forgive potential slip-ups, which are part of the relationship in long-term relationships. Such individuals often make better partners.
They are similar in the main things.
For a relationship to work, it doesn't mean you have to have exactly the same taste in music, sweets and movies. However, you have a better chance for a relationship to work out if you are similar in certain things: in your views regarding (potential) family, in a broader political view and above all in the values that you value most.
They are attracted to each other.
We are not saying that it is not possible to be happy in a marriage where sexual attraction is lacking. Certain couples manage to do this too, some don't even mind. But it is definitely easier to breed with a person with whom you have good chemistry.
You trust him/her.
Serious relationships are not a piece of cake, which is certainly reflected in the high divorce rate. Trust is a key element without which you will find it difficult to succeed. The good news is that trust is something that each of you can actively and consciously build together to some extent.
