Remember that feeling when you know something is wrong, but you don't know what? You sense that something is not right. We have all been in such a situation where we felt somewhere deep inside that something was wrong. Again and again we studied the words, messages and actions of our partner and looked for answers to unspoken questions in them.
We keep quiet and wait, hoping we're wrong, but that feeling is rarely wrong.
It seems to you that you are spinning in a circle and that there are doubts and dissatisfaction is an integral part of your life. Stop it. Face the doubts. It's time to make significant changes in your partnership.
Doubts and obsessive emotions lead to destruction not only in partner relationships, but hinder you in all areas of life. Be honest with yourself and end a relationship that has no perspective.
Here are five signs that your relationship should have ended a long time ago.
1. They don't talk
Do you remember the long conversations at the beginning of the relationship? Of course, right? When the initial curiosity is gone in a relationship, there are not many words left between some partners. If you spend more and more time in an armchair, in front of the TV or outside the house - without confidential and deeper conversations, ask yourself if the need for mutual closeness between you will disappear.
2. They spend a lot of time apart
Here we are not referring to everyday obligations, but to the free time that each of you chooses for yourself. Has it become more fun for you or your partner spending time with friends or playing sports? It is obvious that you are running away from the monotonous everyday life.
3. Things that were once attractive now repel you
It's not for nothing that they say that the mistakes you fall in love with eventually become what irritates you the most.
When there are no more shared moments, only silence. Go away! Photo: Cottonbro / PexelsIn unstable relationships, every sentence or word can be the trigger for an argument of epic proportions. Especially if you are incompatible in character and have lost the will to work on the relationship and compromise.
4. You use excuses and excuses
You are yourself or your partner caught in very innovative excuses for the time you don't spend together - for the plans that didn't come true, the dates you forgot? We all know that excuses are very often a signal that they are no longer a priority for each other.
5. You have noticed that you are happier when your partner is not around
A sense of relief, when you are alone, it is a warning sign that something is very wrong in your relationship. A partner should be someone who will contribute to making you feel better. Not that it will make you feel bad day after day.
Follow this feeling, give yourself space and don't be afraid of loneliness, but a bad attitude that can ruin years and years of your life.
