"Women can screw up an orgasm. Men can screw up a relationship." - Sharon Stone
How do you get along in bed? Do you ever ask your sexual partner what he likes?
Here are some things that may indicate that all is not as it should be in your sex life.
You never have an orgasm
Your partner shouldn't be the only person experiencing it during sex. If you don't experience it, you should take some time to teach your partner how you want to be touched. If you don't know the answer, take the time to find out. You deserve to know what your body enjoys and to experience the pleasure. Don't pretend that you're completely satisfied with sex just because your partner is happy. You both have to enjoy it.
Sex is too predictable
You are bored. Being with the same person for a long time doesn't mean you have to have repetitive shows in the bedroom. You can try new positions. New locations. Whatever. Even waking up, which you normally use to lie down, can be a welcome change to revitalize your sex life. You don't need to do anything too "strange", just let your imagination run wild.
You have concerns
If you can have sex with someone, you should also be able to talk to them about sex. If you want to try something new, tell them. If they are doing something you don't enjoy, tell them. The more transparent you are, the better the sex will be – for both parties.
They do not have frequent sexual relations
Every relationship is different. Some couples have sex several times a week. Some a few times a month. Others several times a day. It doesn't matter how often you have sex, what matters is whether you're happy with it. If you want them more, don't jump to conclusions that they are cheating on you or losing interest, but actually talk to them about the situation. There is a simple solution, but you won't know it if you don't talk to each other.
Inappropriate behavior
Your partner should not pressure you to allow relationships that make you uncomfortable. They should not manipulate you, compare you with others. Talking about what you should change about your body. They shouldn't make you feel insecure in or out of the bedroom. If they do, point them out. If the situation does not change, leave them.
