People come and go, but you stay with yourself - forever.
Sometimes you have to remove people from your life in order to live again. Wake up and be your own creator of life. Let's see what the writer has to say about it January Nelson.
1. I spent most of my life believing people. I was weak - I was done with it. I don't let people walk all over me anymore. I will no longer be silent when someone says something hurtful or offensive. Now that I've finally stood up for myself, it's causing problems in my friendships and relationships. Some people can't handle change. And some people I just don't want in my life anymore because I've raised my standards. I've outgrown a few.
2. Life is too short to keep repeating the same arguments over and over again. I'm not going to get mad at someone for disrespecting me. If they do it once, I can give them another chance. But if the behavior is going to happen again, then it doesn't matter if they apologize or not. They don't speak their minds. They haven't learned to respect other people and they don't deserve a second of my time anymore.
3. I was taught that it's okay to have a different opinion and that we should not judge or judge others based on what they believe. But there's a difference between a friend who hates my favorite show and a friend who hates a group of people. I have no time for racists, homophobes or transphobes. Why should I explain to you why someone's life is worth living? Every life is valuable and important!
4. They no longer bring anything into my life. I will not keep someone in my world simply because we have history. If we don't get along today, if we barely talk, or if they bring me more stress than excitement, then there's really no reason to keep them in my life. I don't hate them. I don't want to hurt them. I just walk away. I don't have enough time or energy to entertain people who are not that important to me.
5. I will not be nice just to avoid confrontation. I don't care if I'm overly emotional or a "difficult person" for you. I will not allow you to joke or poke fun at someone else's expense. People don't like to be told they are wrong. In fact, they don't want to grow and become a better version of themselves.
6. I deserve to feel comfortable. I will not deal with someone who treats me with disrespect. I will not live in stress just to appear polite. You can't force me to contact someone who is toxic just because you know them. If you have made me feel inferior, I will delete you from my life. It doesn't matter who you are. What matters is how I feel.
7. Sometimes I don't try to get rid of you, but you leave naturally. I forgot to send you a message or I'm so busy with my life that you faded into the background. There is no way to get to you. It's a simple life.
