We can all agree that trust is extremely important in a healthy relationship: without it, even strong love cannot stop conflicts, insecurities and unhealthy jealousy. However, it is by no means wise to trust blindly - your partner must first show you through his actions and words that he deserves this virtue from you. That is why we have prepared 7 questions that will show you if you can trust your partner.
1. How long have I known my partner?
Many people agree that the most beautiful relationships develop from friendships and therefore it is not unusual if you already know your new partner for many years. However, it is certainly not a good sign if you still have it in such a case trust issues: then consider what you could caused your doubts.
In case you only know your partner little time, it is perfectly normal to maintain a balance between trust and caution.
Sometimes relationships develop from friendships Photo: Radu Florin / Pexels2. How did we meet?
Yes, sometimes us they disappoint persons from whom it would least expected. However, we still advise you to be a bit more careful, if you met your partner in the club, on dating app, on holidays... and in principle they don't mutual friends and acquaintances.
You can lower your "shield" a bit faster, if e.g. they hang out for many years, it is a friend with one of your closest, have been for some time colleague etc.
3. How were his past relationships?
In a relationship, it is completely normal that sometimes the conversation turns to past relationships– and sometimes it turns out that these did not go very well pink.
You must realize that no way is not necessarily, that the partner's past relationships will be reflected yours: people can they change– but only if you are your own mistakes are admitted. Pay attention to whether the partner is capable recognize their wrongdoings or guilt he blames ex-girlfriends for every failed relationship.
Watch your partner talk about his past Photo: Oleksandr Pidvalnyi / Pexels4. Is he honest and open with me?
It is for many people vulnerability difficult, so there's no need to be suspicious if you don't know entire life stories your partner. However, it is something completely different if your chosen one answers your questions avoids, constant changing the subject, doesn't give you clear answers…It can exist for that several reasons, but none of them is a good foundation for a healthy relationship.
5. How does he behave online?
Under honesty it also includes the fact that the partner is with you exactly as you feel presented initially. If they met via the web, then it's a bad sign if you later found out that his social networks and the messages sent before he met you were in no way indicative of his realistic images.
Do your partner's social networks show a real picture of him? Photo: Karolina Grabowska / Pexels6. How does our communication work?
It will be difficult to achieve trust with your partner without it clear and open communications. Pay attention to whether your partner is ready resolve misunderstandings, to admit your mistakes, you to listen…
Also watch how regularly you you hear: here with each other, of course we distinguish, but, in principle, that someone does not write off their partner after several days, does not give too optimistic predictions for the relationship.
7. Is he open about his expectations?
You must not forget to be the person you are intended and who are you deserves, with yours emotions she won't play. Before you decide to trust your partner unconditionally, work out what they are like purposes. Someone who wants to be with you serious relationship, it will be for you clearly showed and your questions and plans for the future will not be answered evaded.
