Is monotony in your relationship "killing" you? Don't let her. Turn the dial and breathe differently!
Long term relationship or married life becomes more demanding over time. Why? Because you have to put energy and effort into it, because nothing, not even love, is taken for granted.
In the initial stages of falling in love and living together, you look at everything and experience things through the glasses of falling in love, but over time the initial euphoria wears off.
If you feel that your relationship has become monotonous, then it's time to put some different energy into it.
Devote more time to your partner, to shared moments, because the problem of boredom can quickly lead to infidelity, divorce and other ways of escaping from the relationship.
Don't look for ways out of the relationship, but work for it.
There are ways to freshen up your relationship and banish monotony and boredom from it.
1. Go deep within yourself and regain your happiness
Find happiness within yourself. Take some time for yourself and deal with your problems that you have buried deep in your subconscious. Don't avoid them, face them, no matter how hard it is to admit them, it will set you free. You will blow away the feelings of confusion and become happier.
Let's say you think about why you already married your partner, remember all the good times you spent together, laughing... Put love back into your routine.
2. Change your perspective
Take a step back and change your perspective on your partner, on your relationship. For example, if you currently see your relationship as boring, try changing your perspective to see this boredom as a sign of security, as something you've built with love over the years.
If you can do this, your feelings of boredom can also turn into feelings of deeper intimacy and attachment to your partner and relationship.
3. Do something new
Do things together that are unusual for you. Change your routine. For example, instead of sitting on the couch after lunch, you go for a walk or clean the house together.
You do things you've done together before but forgot about, or things you've always talked about doing but never got around to doing.
The idea is to make your relationship interesting, and the possibilities are endless. Indulge in your creativity and together look at your relationship and life from a different angle, an angle where you are in love and happy.
4. Be spontaneous
There is nothing more exciting than spontaneity. But you have to make time for her and each other and maintain open communication.
They jump out of their usual routines and do something spontaneous. Let's say it's breakfast time and you invite him/her to breakfast in the park.
No matter how busy you are, you can always find and imagine something different, spontaneous and, moreover, fun.
5. They brighten up your intimate life
Lack of intimacy will affect the entire relationship. Keep it, find ways to still want each other, the smell of your bodies. Fantasize and experience it as an exciting joint adventure.
Talk honestly with your partner about his and your secret desires and ways you can make things more exciting for each other. For example, maybe they haven't talked about their fantasies, foreplay preferences, positions, etc. Now it's time to get started.
When you talk about it, you will feel even more connected and satisfied. Satisfaction will show on your face and, of course, in the entire relationship.
6. Learn something new every day
Keep up to date with what's happening in the world, read the news, learn new skills... No matter how long you and your partner have known each other, remember that you can still learn something new about them. Look forward to discovering your partner every day.
Imagine it like a book, every day is a new story and the two of you are in it.
7. Don't forget about your own life outside of the relationship
In any relationship, it is important that each of you has your own life. Socializing with others, doing different things, getting to know your new potentials is an important part of building yourself.
In addition, you will have substance for communication. Communication is the basis of every relationship, in addition to all other values.
