You are waiting for his call. Are you nervous about it? He hasn't called you in over 7 days, but he's been posting on social media all the time. Then these 7 signs tell you that your waiting is in vain.
You fight yourself not to call him. Does that mean he doesn't care about you? Is he waiting for you to contact him first? Has he moved on and is better off without you?
The possibilities are endless. All you want to know is what his behavior actually means.
There are some universal answers to this question.
7 things to think about if v hasn't called you in more than seven days!
1. His heart contends with his reason
Most men are extremely stubborn creatures. They don't like being controlled, and especially despise being told what to do. They even end up fighting with themselves.
In fact, the explanation can be quite simple - he doesn't know what to do with you.
His heart tells him to surprise you and confess his eternal love to you. On the other hand, he thinks that you are not a good option for him. He may be fighting some demons that you have no idea about. Anyway, the bottom line is that this man doesn't know what he's doing, nor what he wants to do.
The good news about this man is that he loves you. No matter what happens in the future, know that you were much more important to this man than he wanted.
On the other hand, this man puts his stubbornness above his emotions. Do you really want such a person to be your forever person?
2. Takes revenge
People assume that women are more vindictive than men. But it has been proven that men can be extremely vindictive when they have a wounded heart.
He suddenly stopped answering your calls, maybe he wanted to make sure he got under your skin. On the other hand, it's possible that he just gave you a taste of your own medicine. He may be waiting for you to make the first move, he doesn't want to be the one to put himself down. You can easily finish this game in few moves. All you have to do is call him first because this scam could go on forever.
Do you really want to be with a man who goes through life with such immaturity? Instead of talking about what's bothering him, he stays silent. In addition, it is clear that he does not care about your feelings. His ego is more important than his feelings, and it's up to you to accept that.
3. Men play a game
Modern dating is all about different relationship games. Like it or not, it's that simple. If he hasn't contacted you in a month, it could just be one of his tests. Maybe he just wants to show that he is dominant. This is a common strategy used by most men. It seems to them that the one who shows his feelings first is the loser.
If person A shows their heart, they are automatically vulnerable. He puts his fate in the hands of person B. Therefore, person B thinks he can behave as he wants without any consequences. They assume that the first person likes them and will put up with their nonsense because of it.
The biggest problem is that person A never knows if the other person loves them. Mixed signals are being sent to her, and Person A is working hard to figure out B's true intentions.
By accepting him back, you've given him the green light to continue acting the way he wants to. But now that you are aware of his intentions, you are one step ahead of him.
But if we look at things realistically, these kinds of games never end well. Once you enter this endless cycle, you cannot get out of it. Until you cut all ties with that person.
4. If he wants you in his life, you will be there
This man probably doesn't love you. Or worse, you may never be there. He's a coward who didn't have the guts to tell you that directly to your face. Instead, he left you thinking that everything he did was perfectly fine. He disappeared without giving you an explanation, leaving you wondering what went wrong.
He is not willing to put in the effort to be with you. Whatever obstacle he sees between the two of you, it's clear he's not ready to overcome it. Do not try to find clues and explanations for his sudden change in behavior.
If you go looking for answers, this man will remain in your heart and mind even though he is physically absent. Instead of trying to heal your broken heart, you will break it into even more pieces.
There is something good in every situation and this is no exception. You could go years without suspecting that he didn't love you.
5. Because of his fear of what might happen, nothing happens
Although most men hide their vulnerability, the truth is that each of them has their share of fear. Some men have an uncontrollable urge to run away the moment they realize they are in love. Instead of following their feelings, they see them as a weakness.
This is common in emotionally damaged men. They lack the courage to face the unknown, preferring to stay in a comfortable zone of indifference. Usually these men are afraid of getting hurt, even though they would never admit it.
Although they pretend to be heartless, they are fully aware that their heart is actually quite fragile and can be easily broken. So they decide to save themselves before they lose control of their emotions.
He is afraid that he will start to love you more than himself and that he will end up being destroyed if you leave him.
There is another type of fear: the fear of rejection. Such a man does not have what it takes to make himself happy - so how can he make you happy? On the other hand, if he loves you from the bottom of his heart, he wouldn't be so afraid.
6. Excuses are his polite form of rejection
Could it be that he couldn't find the time? This man is a special kind of coward. It keeps you as a backup plan. When all else fails, and when all women leave him, he wants you to be his safety net—someone who will always open the door for him.
Another possibility is that it shifts the responsibility to you. He didn't really leave you. Whenever you ask this man what's going on with him, he lies. He is too busy or….
He's apologizing instead of telling you straight up that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. He hopes you will get tired of waiting for him. He expects you to close the door on him and do his dirty work.
7. He has another woman
It is also likely that this man found someone else. Or was this woman with him the whole time? Or maybe he got back with his ex? Anyway, the bottom line is that he is no longer single.
He didn't have the decency to tell you that it was over between you two and that he found someone new. Instead, he ran away from his responsibility and went on with his life as if nothing had happened.
It's over. But instead of seeing it as a loss, look at it like you hit the jackpot. If this man disappears from your life, it's not a curse - it's a blessing.
It's abundantly clear that he has no idea what commitment means, and he doesn't know how to stay faithful.
Some men knock on your door after a month, some after a few months. Most of them will probably contact you as a no-contact rule. Some will do it to check on you, some to see if you're still where they left you, some to break your heart again, and some because they've realized what they've lost.
