Do you feel like you will never love again? That no one will love you anymore? At least not like the person who walked out of your life.
Not at all. Get that toxic thinking out of your mind. Forget the stereotypes and go deeper into yourself. Find the good things in ending a relationship!
You were not meant to be with this person and it's time to erase the following thoughts from your head!
1. I am not worthy of love
If you believe that you are not worthy of being loved, then you will have a hard time accepting any love that is given to you. You will doubt the intention. You will wonder if they will stay or if they will leave. You will doubt them. You will have a hard time enjoying relationships because you will always be waiting for them to fall apart. You have to learn that you are valuable, that you are worthy of love.
2. Every relationship will end like the last
History will not repeat itself. As long as you move forward carefully, you won't get hurt the same way twice. You have to remember that this person wasn't meant for you and the next person might be the one. She won't break your heart. She will be gentle. Respectful.
3. I'd rather stay single than have someone hurt me again
Everything in life is at risk. Even if you stay single, you can still bond with other people. You can still feel your heart breaking. You can't protect yourself as much as you think you can. If someone special comes into your life, you should at least give love a chance. You might end up getting hurt, but if you do nothing, you'll be hurting yourself too.
4. I am happier now than I was in the relationship
It's great that you're independent. It's great that you don't need anyone else to feel happy, successful, fulfilled. But you shouldn't push everyone else away just to say you're strong and independent. You are allowed to fall in love. There's nothing wrong with looking vulnerable.
5. It's too late
It doesn't matter when you get married, let alone when you get your first kiss or have your first serious relationship. Everyone moves at a different pace. Your friends may have already reached certain milestones, but it's perfectly fine if you reach them in the future. There is absolutely no difference. It's never too late. You must not give up hope of finding love.
6. All the good ones are busy
If there is no one good enough for you, you should stay single. You must not lower your standards. But you shouldn't push away every person you meet assuming they'll disappoint you. Some will surprise you. Some people are worth your time. Some deserve a chance.
7. I have too much luggage
Maybe you don't want to get back into a relationship right now because you're still in the recovery and healing process, but you don't have to give up on love. You are not broken. You will find someone special.
