An emotionally mature man is aware of what he has around him, and he would never dream of doing it.
Now you probably know that age has no role in maturity – while some men (or women) have grown up already at 15. or 16., others are still immature at 30. or 40. Here are the characteristics of emotionally mature men that honestly distinguish them from all those who are not yet. Do you have a mature or immature man at home?
A grown man would never do this:
A mature man respects our personal space.
If we are in a healthy relationship, then we have nothing to hide, not even Facebook messages or contacts in our address book. This does not mean that our partner can check our pockets or read our messages - this only shows that he doubts himself and that he does not respect us.
A mature man faces problems.
When we're teenagers, we retreat into our own world when we're in trouble, don't we? A mature man knows that the best way to solve personal, family or work problems is to face them head on. He knows when to face problems and when to back off.
A mature man does not criticize your appearance.
"Why don't you dye yourself blonde?" "Honey, maybe you could lose a little weight." A man who truly loves us will never criticize us in such a way. If he does that, it doesn't help us at all. Instead, he deliberately knocks our confidence down to make sure we never leave him. A mature man will never stoop so low just for his ego.
A mature man does not think that emotions are for weaklings.
Being a man doesn't mean being reserved and emotionless. A mature man is not afraid of criticism from friends if he shows some of his sensuality, tenderness or romanticism. He knows it won't make him any less of a man. Moreover, such behavior is an important factor for a healthy relationship.
A mature man will put us first.
All men need friends to meet for coffee or beer. But a mature man will never make a woman feel that these friends come first or that she comes second. Those men who (too) often listen to the advice of their friends and ignore the opinion of their loved ones are most often too childish and immature individuals.
A mature man has a healthy relationship with his mother.
A mature man always finds time for his parents, even if their relationship is not the best. He understands that caring for those who have cared for him for so long is very important. But he never allows one of his parents (usually his mother) to occupy the central place in his life and thus displace everyone else from it.
A mature man doesn't just think about today.
Some men easily spend all their money on dinner at an expensive restaurant without thinking about the consequences. Or they throw a lavish party during the week and take the next day off. Such men are not capable of planning ahead and thinking about tomorrow. This does not mean that the life of a mature man is boring and unspontaneous - he just realizes that he also needs to think about tomorrow.
A mature man respects you and will never insult or hit you.
If we are experiencing any kind of violence, then stop making excuses and leave it immediately. A mature man does not abuse women, neither mentally nor physically.
How a man treats a woman depends not only on his personality, but also on the behavior of the woman herself. A healthy relationship is a job for two, and women also need to avoid certain mistakes for a happy partnership!
