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Breaking up for no reason: a pain that doesn't go away for a long time

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The person left you without a word, without a message, without an explanation. She just walked away as if they never existed. She just left you with a bunch of questions, self-doubts, assumptions that…

This person acts as if they have done nothing wrong. He blames everyone but himself. She does not acknowledge the role she played in the unfolding of this drama. She acts like she was just a bystander.

She thinks that she has never done anything wrong, never uttered a single wrong word. She doesn't see a single mistake in all that is happening, even though she was to blame for most of the things.

She won't learn anything, she won't grow, she won't work on herself. She will not strive to improve herself so that the past does not repeat itself. He doesn't see mistakes.

The worst part is that she doesn't realize how much damage she has caused. She is so focused on herself that she doesn't see how many people she has hurt around her.

She thinks everything she caused is normal. He thinks he's a good person. She's not sorry, she's sure everyone owes her an apology. She - to no one.

She doesn't care about anyone but herself. Photo: Daniel Corneschi/Unsplash

It's sad that she will treat the next person the same way, with no more respect. Because he doesn't take anything as a lesson. Only her words and actions matter, even if they hurt. She will continue to pretend that she is perfect because she is never to blame for anything, it is always others.

You believed in this person. You thought she cared. You thought she wanted to be a better person, that she was willing to put in the effort. You thought she cared about you. But you were wrong.

This person is not the person you thought they were. It's not even close to that person.

But she is still the same as she was. He doesn't see his mistakes. Don't admit to making mistakes. She never apologized to you. She didn't take the time to understand and realize that she was causing pain. She never took responsibility for anything.

You learned from your mistakes and from hers. You understand that you are not perfect, you have made mistakes and learned something from them. Try to become a better person than you were yesterday. But you can never say that about her.

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