Treat your partner to a dream massage that will take him to the seventh dimension!
How to properly massage your partner, to relieve his stress and eliminate blockages in his body? Masseuse Geraldine Abergas says: "During a partner's massage, the level of oxytocin, which is also known as the love hormone, increases. Your touch means to him: you are safe, I am here, you are not alone. Touch is the most sincere way to communicate, more than words.” When massaging your partner, you only need some imagination and feeling. It's important that both of you feel comfortable doing it.
How to massage a partner?
The pleasure of a massage is formed by a combination of factors.
1. SPACE
Relaxing. Home. Bedroom. Living room.
2. MOOD
The temperature in the room should not be too low. Your partner will probably be naked and you don't want him to get cold while you pamper him. Let the room be darkened only by candlelight, let the scent of essential oil in the air, gentle music soothe you.
3. CHOOSE MASSAGE OIL
Do not use body lotion. Choose your oils. If you want the massage to arouse you, choose the scent of lavender, which provokes lust in the brain - the amygdala. Put a few drops of oil on your palm and warm it between your palms. Use firm but gentle movements that are slow and interconnected. Avoid putting pressure on the bones, focus mainly on the muscles.
4. START THE MASSAGE ON THE BACK
First, massage the back of the head and shoulders, then follow the direction of the spine towards the coccyx, while not pressing on the vertebrae, but gently massaging the area next to them. Continue massaging through the buttocks and thighs all the way to the feet.
5. BE CONFIDENT
Even if you've never had a massage before, it's important to relax. Find your rhythm and breathe.
6. USE YOUR HANDS
Not just the fingers, the pressure should be with the whole palm, the fingers should be soft, but still in contact with the skin.
7. ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE NOT A PROFESSIONAL MASSEUR
It doesn't matter if everything is correct, it's just about the rhythm of your touch and breathing.
8. ALSO MASSAGE IT ON THE FRONT OF YOUR BODY
If you are still having a massage, ask him to turn on his back to release the tension in his neck from lying on his stomach. Focus on the feet, which are extremely sensitive due to thousands of nerve endings. Using both hands, gently apply the oil to the foot and hug it. Then slowly circle the foot by holding the heel with one hand and the toes with the other - and gently circle. At the end, stroke the sole and hug it with both hands.
9. DIRECT YOUR THOUGHTS ON YOUR PARTNER
Focus your thoughts on your partner, take a few deep breaths.
Regardless of whether the massage is foreplay or just a pleasant relaxation before bed, it is an interesting experience in any case. Lots of fun – for both of you!
