If you recognize yourself in the text, don't think for a second, just react. Do something for yourself. For your health. And good luck.
Constantly calling, checking and controlling each other at the beginning of the relationship still seems "normal", because it is supposed to be a kind of proof of love, but later, when they become "old spouses", it often turns out that these types of behavior patterns are not (were) healthy in any way and have devastating consequences for your psychophysical health.
Such behavior often proves that partner has a need for it, to control you. Unfortunately, it often happens that couples close their eyes to the truth or find it difficult to understand that does such behavior conform to human behavior, who like to control.
If you recognize yourself in the text, don't think for a second, rather react. Because your relationship it has nothing to do with love.
Warning signs that you are dealing with a controlling partner:
HE/SHE EXPECTS YOU TO ALWAYS COMMUNICATE TO HIM/HER.
If you happen to miss his/her call, he/she always becomes suspicious and jealous. None of your explanations are good enough to do that dismissed the doubts.
IT IS DIFFICULT WHEN YOU GO SOMEWHERE WITHOUT HER.
Some women and men think they are such acts romantic, but the reality, unfortunately, is different. Partners who like to control will have a hard time coming to terms with the fact that their better half also has their own life.
IT APPEARS UNEXPECTEDLY.
Even if you live together, it often happens that your partner comes to the apartment unexpectedly, because he expects that he/she will find someone with you. He also controls you at work. There is a difference between romantic surprises and uncontrollable jealousy.
CHECKING YOUR MESSAGES.
"If you're not hiding anything from me, you'll let me read your messages" - you've probably heard this before... and no, it doesn't sound romantic, it sounds creepy. Such a person will always find something suspicious, although there is nothing but to prove that she is right.
