Passion should not die out after several years of relationship!
French Kiss it is typical of the first phase of a relationship, when we fall in love and when everything is still blooming. But unfortunately, after a few years, it recedes into the background. For many couples who have been together for many years, romantic love is no longer a priority, and passion goes out the window.
Unfortunately, so do couples who are more than two or three years in total, French kissing is no longer practiced (at least not often), but replaced various kisses on the mouth and cheeks, which, instead of stimulating passion, suppress it. Why does this happen?
3 Sad Reasons Why We Stop Kissing
1. We are busy
Our lives can be pretty crazy. Over time, couples no longer take the time to French kiss, as they often do busy and tired. Also, they may feel that the relationship is solid enough anyway, so they don't feel like they need to invest any extra effort. They find that a French kiss takes too much energy compared to a kiss on the cheek or a quick kiss on the mouth. They no longer remember how they can a french kiss awakens passion and establishes a deeper connection.
2. We feel ignored by our partner
Another reason is that perhaps both of them have accumulated some resentments over time, which now they suppress all sexual energy. Women are especially sensitive to being ignored by their partner in a relationship.
In the beginning, French kissing is passionate and often real foreplay, which most often leads to intercourse. But with routine, passion subsides, and couples no longer see the need to excite each other.
3. We can't express what exactly we want
One of the reasons that couples stop French kissing is that one or even both partners feel misunderstood but they do not have the communication skills to expressed their needs and wishes. If we have desires, longings that we have suppressed, how could we even want a French kiss? Passion cannot flow through our veins if we do not have the opportunity to we express ourselves freely, we express ourselves the way we could when we met.
As John Gray says in his book Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, most men like direct communication, while most women prefer it to be more rounded. And while the man retreats to his "cave" to cool down, the women ponder all the problems in their heads.
In the beginning, such romance is something easy, but later, when the complexity of life joins in, it is still important that you we find time to communicate and to express our wishes. Because where there is clear communication, there is also passion.
So find time for French kisses! They are good for your soul and strengthen your relationship at the same time!
