I know what it's like. I know the feeling of loving someone with all your heart, but living in uncertainty at the same time. When one day you feel like their only one, and the next like just one of their options. When words and actions don't speak the same language. When you wait. You wait for them to realize your worth, for them to grow up, for them to decide that you'll finally come first. But the truth? That moment may never come.
Love is not a puzzle where you have to look for clues.
A man who truly loves you won't send you mixed signals. He won't leave you wondering where you stand. He won't hug you today and disappear tomorrow. His actions will reflect his words. And if you feel like you have to constantly look for signs that you matter to him, if you're wondering if you're enough, then you already have your answer - you're not his first choice.
A dear woman, it doesn't mean you're not worthy. Quite the opposite. You're not a project someone will work on until they figure out if you're the right one for them. You're not a temporary solution until they get their life together. You're not someone who has to beg for love.
True love leaves no doubt
The man who is right for you will not leave you in the dark. He will not play with your heart. He will not take time to figure out if he wants you in his life. Because he will know. And if someone is not sure if you are worthy of his love, then I assure you – you are not worth his hesitation.
You are not an option. You are a choice. You are a goddess who deserves a love that doesn't ask questions. You are someone who doesn't need to wait for a man to make a decision. Because the love you deserve won't be confused, it won't be half-hearted, and it won't depend on his momentary whims.
Don't get caught up in "just a little more"
How many times have you said to yourself, "Just a little longer, and it'll be different?" How many times have you excused him by saying that he has his own problems, that he needs time to realize what he has in you? How many times have you thought that his potential is worth your wait?
The truth is cruel – potential does not equal reality. Love is not based on what someone could be, but on what they actually are. And if they don't value you now, if they don't put you first now, if they don't show their love now – then that's not love.
Love is security, respect, and effort.
Love doesn't grow in uncertainty, but in stability. Not in doubt, but in trust. Not in empty words, but in actions. A man who loves you will choose you every day, without hesitation. He won't let you doubt his love. He won't put you in a position where you have to compete for his attention.
And you? You will no longer settle for less than you deserve. You will no longer let your hope blind you to your truth. Because your time, your love, and your heart are too precious to give to someone who doesn't know their value.
Dear woman, you are not an option. You are a choice. You deserve someone who will see you, respect you, and love you – no questions asked.
