"Love is like the wind; you can't see it, but you can feel it." - Nicholas Sparks
We flirt, we meet new people in the hope that we will find the right person for us and finally experience a successful, long, great, true and above all healthy love.
But why do we constantly find it so difficult to find the right partner? "Will I ever find true love, a true man / a true woman?" many of us ask ourselves, perhaps even more often than we would like.
Is it because there is something wrong with us? Maybe we don't know how to flirt? Maybe it's just not meant for us? Or maybe because love is just a lie? Let's not let failure so far deter us from love!
Why can't we find the right person? Many people are looking for love and the right person for themselves, many have trouble finding it because they simply follow the wrong strategy. If we look at what people are doing today to find love, it's easy to see that they generally don't make the most effective moves.
Many will simply give up and attribute failure to "fate", "luck" or "the stars". This is nothing more than a passive attitude that will not help us find the right person in any way. We certainly cannot expect great results if we leave everything to "luck" or "fate" in any area of our lives.
If we want to stay fit and healthy, we have to actively participate. The same applies in love, regardless of the situation, we must remain consistent and persistent and we must never lower our criteria, because this will not lead us to "true love", but only to a substitute for this person, who will only be in our life for a short time.
Don't believe it?
To be successful in business, you need to be proactive and take initiative, just like in almost any other area of life. If you want to be successful, you have to move forward, be persistent, consistent and do what works and brings results.
What's the real reason why you can't find the right person? Is it really the result of romantic movies, books or other aspects of popular culture and a bit of laziness? No. You hear such stories from time to time, but life is not dreams and fantasies.
Are you truly ready for love? If what you're doing isn't bringing success, it's time to change tactics and find what really works.
Which dating tips are the right ones when it comes to finding your one?
1. Figure out who you really want to be in a relationship with
This is the first step to help you find the right person, but it also means you need to understand who you don't want to be in a relationship with. Few people actually stop to think carefully about what they really want from their potential partner.
What values are important to you? What things could you not tolerate and would not tolerate? No one can answer these questions for you but you. You need to find the answers yourself to create a realistic and clear basis for finding a partner before you do anything.
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2. Put yourself in situations where you will meet the type of person you really want to be with
Many people look for the right person, love and partner in the wrong places like coffee shops, night clubs and the like and still wonder why they can't find it.
Look at it this way – you will never be able to find an original Gucci bag at your local wholesaler, no matter how hard you search and covet it. You may also never find the compassionate and considerate partner that is ideal for you if you look in all the wrong places. Think about where you are most likely to find and meet the type of person that suits you. That way, you will probably find the right person for you sooner.
3. Form an irreplaceable emotional connection
Many people believe that strong chemistry between them and their partner is some kind of indicator of what kind of relationship they should have. Don't get me wrong, chemistry can be a wonderful feeling and definitely plays an important role in any romantic relationship. But people often confuse chemistry with real love, because it's not a sign that people are into it "destined," that they are together.
Why? Because you can have chemistry with basically anyone if you learn how to establish and form a strong emotional connection. The problem is that most people don't know how to do it. So when they meet someone with whom they naturally "catch", he finds this person special and attractive, but the initial attraction disappears and then a strong emotional connection is important, which inspires people to devote and commit to each other even more.
These three steps are a basic part of a dating strategy that works. So now you know the real reason why you can't find the right person. If you really want to find that person, it's time to stop relying on luck and to actively take the lead in your life.
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