Think carefully!
When we fall in love, we usually have certain ideas of what a relationship should be like. But these ideas are often imbued with unrealistic expectations, which can actually DESTROY a relationship.
These are the most common unrealistic expectations that people have.
IF HE LOVES ME, HE WILL KNOW WHAT I NEED, EVEN WHEN I TELL HIM
It is true, sometimes a partner can correctly guess at a certain moment what the other needs at that moment. But this is very rare. It is much better and much more realistic not to expect your partner to read your mind, but to expect yourself to learned to say exactly what you need. This will greatly improve your relationship.
I NEED TO BE THE CENTER OF THE PARTNER'S WORLD
In the beginning, everything will really revolve around you, as your partner will try to seduce and conquer you. But later, when you get to know each other well and get used to each other, other things will be on your mind and in the foreground here and there. This does not mean that your partner no longer cares about you. Instead of constantly complaining about being overlooked, consider that we all have our responsibilities to fulfill. Find something else to grab your attention and accept the reality that the whole world cannot revolve around you.
WE ALWAYS HAVE TO AGREE
It's too romantic to expect them to always agree 100 percent. After all, it is it's perfectly healthy to have different opinions about something, different beliefs. It would also be wise not to always try to convince your partner that only you are right and that he should come over to your side. Of course, for the survival of the relationship, it is important that you agree on some important matters - whether you want marriage, children, how you imagine your life together - but it is not at all important that you share an opinion on completely unimportant things.
IT HAS TO CHANGE BECAUSE OF ME
Many people are of this opinion, and many people are also afraid of relationships for this very reason... because they think that their partner will try to change them. But let's be realistic for a moment: a situation where someone has to be something they're not is not going to last in the long run because it's not going to make anyone happy! So if you're starting a relationship, don't expect your partner to change. Yes, people become more mature, yes, people change their mind, but they never change their essence!
BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS SIMPLE
Maybe it's silly to say it's hard to be in a relationship because it's not, but it's also not. A successful relationship includes a lot of adaptation, acceptance, effort, ... First of all, it is important that, in addition to love, respect and trust, they also have constant communication, that they are ready to compromise and that they do not always put their own needs first.
Healthy relationships are not perfect. But if you don't have unrealistic expectations, you'll increase your chances of being in a happy relationship that has every chance of lasting!
