Scottish stand-up comedian Daniel Sloss explained in his speech about love that we have an idea formed from childhood, how our life will go. His theory comes from his father telling him in his early childhood, when he said to him: "Imagine that the life of each individual is a puzzle that has many pieces. You spend your whole life searching for particles, using experience and lessons. No one knows exactly what his life should be like. The best way to put it together is to start with the external aspects - family, friends, hobbies, work. However, even these four things change over time - you will lose some friends, you will meet new ones. Sometimes work will affect a hobby you love and you will have to decide what to prioritize. You will constantly move the placement of the puzzle... Then a family member will die, whose death will leave a void in your heart that you must fill with something else, or your puzzle will be "empty". And this void is made for your soul mate. One day a perfect stranger will put your puzzle together and make your life perfect.”
And that's exactly the problem, that young people want things right now, that's why they choose the wrong person, because they want to fit it into their puzzle by all means, even though it is about wrong particle. Daniel believes that this happens because people do not understand that he also has another person deeply and complex personality, which makes up his puzzle. Other people don't want to abandon their own vision just for the sake of it would get caught in a foreign one.
When it comes to true love, partners must put together a puzzle. It can be hard, but you fight, because they are driven by love. At the beginning of the relationship, everything usually runs smoothly, but there is no guarantee of success. They may spend two, five or ten years together, but eventually they will realize that they are completely different.
Daniel says this is the moment you have to ask 2 questions, which are very important:
1. Am I aware that I have just wasted 2, 5, 10 years of my life?
2. Do I want to spend the rest of my life this way?
By the end of his speech, the audience understood that his father was wrong when he said that you have to put the puzzle in the center make love. Happiness is much more important, so you should never be in a relationship at any cost and to change because of her. If a person does not love you as you are, it means that he does not love you completely, but rather he loves a false vision of you, which she herself created in her head. So it's not your fault if you don't meet expectations.
Daniel says that you and your partner should both be happy. If they are that's great. If you don't like the questions, it's because because you are afraid of the answer.
Daniel also adds that he believes there are true loves, but in his opinion, it is 80 % union of false, because people don't know how to be single, they don't know how to wait for the right person and therefore allow themselves to spend their precious time with the wrong person.
