If you ever think that no one could fall in love with you, know that this thought is not true. It is the result of wounds, bad experiences, comparisons, and inner fears.
If you think today that no one could fall in love with you, then I have to ask you something: have you really forgotten who you really are?
Have you forgotten how many times you picked yourself up when life knocked you down? Did you forget?How many people have you made laugh before you even believed you were worthy of a smile? Have you forgotten how many nights you spent alone, just so you wouldn't burden anyone with your burden?
It's not true that you're not worthy of love.
It's not true that no one will ever be able to love you. If you think that, it's only because you've given your heart too many times to people who took it for granted. And you know what? It's not your fault. But it's also not a reason to start believing that you're not enough.
No, you don't need to be more fun, more "worthy", more... You don't need to change into someone else. Someone who can't love you won't love you, no matter how hard you try.
The right person will find you the moment you stop playing.. When you stop pleasing. When you stop hiding all the parts of yourself that you love the most – just to be more likable.
And yes, it might not be today. It might not be tomorrow. But whoever knows how to love you won't love you despite everything you are. He will love you for who you are.
Just because you haven't met the right person yet doesn't mean you're "difficult." It just means you don't have time for half-hearted things. And believe me, the world is full of people who don't have the courage for true love. Who are looking for something quick, something that won't hurt them too much, something that won't change them too much.
But you're not like that. And you never were.
And if you're sitting alone today, without a hand in your hand, without a message on your phone, without someone looking at you the way you want to be looked at – that still doesn't change the fact that you have more to offer than half of this world.
Your silence is valuable. Your dedication is valuable. Your truth is valuable.
Someone will come. And they won't ask you why you're quiet, why you're sad sometimes, why you're not pretending. They'll tell you, "Finally, someone who's real."
And you know what? That moment you will stop doubting yourself.
Stay who you are. Because who you are is exactly what someone is looking for. And when that someone comes, every doubt, every wound, every silence will take on meaning.
Believe me, someone will be able to see you. Not despite who you are – but because of it.
