Proper upbringing has nothing to do with your preferences and lifestyle. It's about what you carry in your heart.
Proper upbringing has nothing to do with your preferences and lifestyle. It's not about how much you drink, smoke or eat. And it's certainly not about what you wear or what you have and how much money you have in your bank account. Proper upbringing is about more than just living a perfect life.
A good upbringing means what you carry in your heart
How much love, respect and understanding you have for other people. How willing are you to put yourself in their shoes and look at life from their perspective. It's about stepping out of the familiar and acknowledging the fact that we're all different and that it's the differences that make us special.
Good upbringing is associated with kindness
It's about opening your heart and showing compassion to everyone around you. It's about doing your best to understand people's pain and help them through their problems. It's about accepting every person as an equal without discriminating against them or judging their choices. It's about showing respect instead of hate.
Good parenting is about choosing honesty over everything else.
It's about the dignity of being truthful and forthright in a world where people lie without remorse.
Good upbringing means accepting responsibility
Admitting your mistakes, taking the blame when you do something wrong, apologizing and doing everything you can to make things right again. It's about choosing to be an adult, a mature person who is fully aware of your faults and isn't afraid to accept your flaws without defending yourself or shifting the blame onto other people.
Good education means keeping promises
To do the things you promised to do, not to change your mind every five minutes.
To be raised properly it means keeping your word and let people know they can always count on you. It's about showing honesty and courtesy at the same time. And that you are true to your word and persist, no matter what.