When you fall in love, you feel great and would travel the world with your partner.
You assume they are made for each other. Is it really that easy? How can you tell if your partners have serious intentions or not?
It's up to you to spot these signs and take action to protect yourself and your vision for the relationship or future. Open up to your partner and communicate with each other about everything, about all your fears, wishes, expectations.
There are concrete signs of what the other person's intentions are.
Signs that they have serious intentions
Falling in love is mutual and they show it to you through words and actions.
They defend you against others, regardless of who is on the other end.
They respect you, give you freedom and accept your views and opinions.
They want to be a part of your life. To create memories and share experiences with you.
They are serious and honest, communicate honestly and are open to you.
They want to see the world through your eyes. A partner who listens and seeks your opinion on issues big and small is one who wants to see the world through your eyes.
They support you, regardless of whether they fully agree.
They see you together with them in the future.
Signs that they are not serious about you
Hesitation. Some people are so in love with their partners (or the idea of them) that they don't see the warning signs, even when they're right under their noses. The partner openly expresses his intention to them, but they do not want to hear it.
They are socially isolated, they don't socialize with other people, they don't travel.
Disinterest. They are with you, but their thoughts are somewhere else, they don't care who you are.
They don't communicate. Communication is the foundation of any happy relationship, but it's also an important warning sign. A partner who refuses to communicate is one who is not open. When we communicate, we share our feelings, ourselves. This is how you get to know each other.
They don't talk about past relationships. If their history is just a list of short-lived relationships - this means that they are not someone who takes a partnership seriously.
They don't plan. A partner who isn't interested in planning a life with you is one who doesn't see you in their future.
Deliberate avoidance. They never have time. Avoidance is a common sign that someone is not being honest with you.
You are not their priority. When it comes to our romantic partnerships, you have to prioritize your partners.
You don't feel comfortable. The way you feel around a person says a lot about them and your connection with them. Your intuition will tell you when something is wrong. Listen to your heart.
A one-sided relationship, based only on the physical or material reasons of one person.
Regardless of whether your partner is serious about you or not, it is important to clear your doubts with them and get to the root of the truth. You cannot build a happy or stable relationship without trust.
Communicate, conversation is one of the most important parts of any relationship. Talk often, in this way you maintain not only love, but also mutual respect and compassion. Conversations dispel doubts.
Be honest with yourself and be honest with each other. If you can't appreciate each other, it's a waste of time.
