You can't hide and pretend that you're not responsible for what happened. You know full well that your decision had consequences. And I'm not talking about ideals, romantic scenarios, or demands that no one can fulfill. I'm talking about real facts.
It's easiest to take a step back and act like it was all just a misunderstanding. It's easiest to say I misinterpreted things. But I can't accept that anymore. There were actions, there were words, there were concrete moments. It wasn't all a coincidence and it wasn't one-sided. This is reality, not a story that you can reshape to suit yourself.
I didn't invent anything.
Don't try to convince me that I misunderstood. You were the one who made the contact. You were the one who opened the door, then closed it without explanation. I wasn't projecting anything, I wasn't imagining anything.
I wasn't someone who made up stories to fill a void. I was realistic. There was something between us. And it's not fair for you to act like it didn't happen now.
I realize that running away is easier than Take responsibility. It's easier to step aside and let others pick up the pieces. But being an adult means to acknowledge one's part. I don't expect you to agree with every view I have. But I do expect you to respect the fact that I was hurt by your actions.
What you did was not right.
Nothing diminishes the fact that you acted dishonestly. It's not a matter of ego, it's not a matter of jealousy, it's not a matter of melodrama. It's a matter of responsibility and respect. You led me into something you didn't intend to continue. You created a sense of connection and then disappeared. That wasn't right. That wasn't mature. And it never will be.
I don't want to correct the past.
I don't demand an explanation. I don't expect apologies out of fear or duty. But I do expect honesty. I expect that someone doesn't choose an escape route just because it's the easiest. It's that simple! I just expect you to acknowledge the fact that you influenced me. That you triggered something. That you left a mark. That's not a demand. That's reality.
I accept my responsibility.
I don't run from my mistakes. I accept them. I learn from them. I am not perfect. and I don't hide it. But at least I can stand behind my actions.
And so I'm setting a clear boundary now. Not because you're no longer worthy of my attention, but because I deserve peace and respect.
I'm looking forward. Not because it's easy, but because it's my decision. And that's exactly the difference between us - I'm not ashamed of my decisions, and you...
