Tired of happy couples reminding you of your single status? Are you sick of events and social gatherings where people come with their partners (and no one follows you)? Do you think you will be single forever? Feeling lonely?
Hate questions like: "How come you're still single?" If you're (still) single, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. It's better to be single than with the wrong person. Being single is not a matter of desperation, it is a choice!
You don't want to be a victim of fake love. You don't want to rush, and that's why you're single. You are not single because you cannot meet anyone, but because you do not want to give your heart to a random stranger just to get rid of the status - single.
You probably have your own too reasons, why you are still single, and these could be some of them:
- You have been before broken.
- You need more time, to decide if you will give your heart to someone else.
- You love yours independence.
- You need time to work on yourself.
- You are not afraid to wait for the things you are you earn.
- You know it is to be single better like being in an unhappy relationship.
Anyone can be in a relationship, but only a few can be truly happy in it. Once you understand the real reason why you are still single, you will find it easier to accept your single status instead of seeing it as something bad.
Stay single until you find someone you are truly interested in
Relationships and true love cannot be forced. Everything happens for a reason and you are exactly where you are supposed to be. Maybe you need some time to work on yourself and increase your self-love. You may need more time to heal from past relationships (even if you think you don't). You must first learn to have love yourself. The only way to fall in love with yourself is to accept yourself as you are and also your single status.
- Stay single until you start to love every inch of you.
- Stay single until you start appreciate the freedom you have.
- Stay single until you start it to see as a blessing instead of a curse.
- Stay single until you don't you find someone you are really interested in.
Don't rush things. Don't force yourself to meet new people if you're not ready and, most importantly, don't worry about what others think!
The only person you should be listening to is yourself
So stay single until you meet someone who is right for you. Each of us has our own unique path and being alone is part of it. So instead of seeing this as something negative, accept that there is a reason why you are still single and you will meet someone when the time is right. Instead of worrying about being single, hug yourself!
And some reasons why being single is priceless:
- No drama (every relationship is filled with drama eventually).
- No jealousy.
- You can truly learn to love yourself.
- The whole bed is yours.
- You realize that you don't need a romantic relationship to be truly happy.
- You invest more time in hobbies and building meaningful relationships.
I could go on with this list, but to each their own.
One of the most helpful tips for embracing single life is realizing that what you think you're missing right now isn't a romantic relationship, it's just love.
You will miss falling in love with yourself and not with anyone else
Once you understand this, you will never, ever tell yourself or others that you are tired of being single. By saying that, it basically means you're tired of being alone.
You should never tire of finding new ways to become the best version of yourself, and you should never tire of exploring life and its beauty on your own. So instead of worrying about being single, embrace it.
Instead of waiting for someone else to love you, fall in love with yourself.
