Is love really a place where two souls accept each other – wounded but honest? Is there a person who can embrace your scars and not be afraid of your reality? Is it possible to love someone without understanding their pain? These are not questions that seek perfection, but truth. The truth about what it means to stand before another person – naked in soul, without a mask, without games, just with everything you are.
Everyone carries their own story with them. No one is a blank slate. Everyone has moments that have marked them – some pleasant, others painful.
Every person comes into a relationship with past tense – with scars that speak of the struggles she has endured. She comes with unspoken fears, with small vulnerabilities that she is afraid to show for fear of being hurt even more.
This is not an excuse, but the truth. We all carry a suitcase of memories – some heavier than others. And in it are doubts, reservations, the feeling that love sometimes hurts. But when we let someone close, we learn to trust again.
I'm not looking for perfection, but for reality.
Perfection is an illusion, a mirror image that crumbles at the first touch of reality. What the heart desires is reality – someone who knows how to stay when things aren't easy. Someone who understandsthat love is not always just love, that it requires effort, patience, and sometimes even silence.
To love means accept – all colors of person, even those darker shades. To accept is to see beyond the moment, beyond the mistake. It is that silent commitment: “I will stay, even when it is difficult.”
If you don't believe - in me, in us - then don't stay, leave.
Love is also an act of courage. It requires confidence, not just feelings. It takes faith that something beautiful can be born from chaos. Without this faith, everything loses its meaning.
If someone doesn't enter a relationship openly, if they don't take risks, if they don't show all their passion openly, then they can't expect the love to last.
To love means to stay, even when it hurts
When the silence between two is louder than words, when fatigue and doubt settle in – That's when the power of love is measured.. Loving someone means standing by them even when they are distracted, angry, lost. It means fighting and building bridges, not to run away into the safety of solitude.
Anyone who expects it to always be easy will be disappointed again and again. Love requires work. – the honest, everyday, vulnerable work of two people learning to choose each other over and over again.
I don't expect perfection - I expect presence.
It's not a demand, but a respect. A simple but profound condition: be here, with me, with the truth, with the will to try. Love is not just a passion, it's a decision that repeats itself.
Life is too short for half-hearted touches and empty promises. Love is not a place for those who are afraid of honesty. If someone cannot love fully, then it is better for them to leave - not out of anger, but out of respect.
Love that lasts
True love is not driven by perfection, but by willingness. to grow together, even through the cracksSuch love does not always promise happiness, but reality.
And so – if you won't love me when I'm down, when I doubt myself, when I'm learning to be a better version of myself, then please go.
