When you love someone, the key is to accept them completely - with all their imperfections. In a relationship based on true love, it is important to stand by our partner even in moments when he is not perfect. And this is exactly what creates strong bonds. Promise to love every part of him, even the sometimes difficult ones.
Love as a decision, not just a feeling
Love is not just a feeling, it is a decision. A decision to accept someone for who they are and to learn to love even the parts that are sometimes uncomfortable or difficult. Everyone has their faults and weaknesses, but that doesn't mean they don't deserve love.
Support in the most difficult moments
It's important to support him as he faces his inner demons. Be there for him when his nightmares haunt him and when his restless brain can't find peace. Hold his hand, tell him he's safe and that you're with him. Never underestimate the power of presence, quiet understanding and acceptance.
The importance of patience and gentleness
When the silence between you feels too loud, don't run away. Stay and be his safe zone. Real partners don't back down when the going gets tough. They are there to listen even when there are no words.
Acceptance and love without conditions
Be patient with his mistakes and be gentle with his insecurities. Also, if he sometimes doesn't have time for you or seems lost in his own thoughts, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. A man who looks strong on the outside is sometimes vulnerable on the inside and needs someone to love him with all that he is.
Love him like I didn't know how
Don't take it for granted. Every moment you spend with him is precious, so cherish it. Even when he is stubborn or acts like a spoiled child, remember that there may be a battle going on inside him that you know nothing about. So be understanding and allow him to express his feelings.
Promise that you will always show him that he is loved and that he is not alone. Remind him that you are the one who will always choose him, no matter what. That you will take care of his curiosity and encourage his creativity. He will do the same for you.
He loves him like I never knew him. Because he deserves it.
