Envy is probably on the list of the worst 'diseases', because with such thoughts you poison people, the space around you and yourself. If you think someone else is living the perfect life and you're not, it's time to clear some things up with yourself. Above all, make these 5 changes.
It often happens that people prefer to observe the lives of others and be sad, because it is their life boring, instead of making some fundamental changes at Yourself. Probably the thing is that they don't even give themselves the chance to change some things and do something nice for yourself. If you think the grass is greener next door, it's time to to implement these 5 changes in your life as soon as possible.
Stop being jealous.
Your jealousy is the biggest obstacle on the way to a better life. It contributes to making every aspect of your life boring. When you hear that someone has succeeded, you can't stop stressing, instead you feel sorry for not being able to achieve it and focus on the other person's success. Let go of these thoughts and remember that you have everything you need to achieve what you want.
Stop saying you'll do 'it' one day.
When exactly is that day? You use this phrase all the time, but you realize it's an excuse. Humans know that the only thing we know for sure is what is happening in the moment. But ask yourself if you are following your dreams right now. If the answer is no, then all you need is a change in your mindset.
Encourage creative thinking.
Curiosity is something that plagues you the most when you think the grass is greener next door. You are 'in love' with the mindset that others are doing better. But in reality, you need to stop thinking like that and focus on why the neighbor's grass is greener, how he got to the state of supposed perfection, how long it took... Ask him these questions, and understand the answers to him as seeds with which you can create an even better story.
Be grateful for what you have now.
Feeling gratitude is the key to success. Be happy for the things you have right now. There will always be someone in this world who is better or worse. If you are a person who dreams big and wants too much, you will probably never be completely satisfied with your situation. You have to realize that whatever you have can be enough. Your job is to enjoy it now.
Take courage as soon as possible.
Courage is key if you want to live the life you've always dreamed of. It's about facing your fears and taking good risks. Along the way, you'll likely face obstacles and people who don't believe you're doing the right thing. Don't let this 'noise' make you restless.
