The decision to move into a shared home with your partner is extremely important. If you can't imagine life without a room where you can do whatever you want, you're probably not ready for a big turning point.
According to the psychotherapist dr. LeslieBeth Wish it is important to know why do you need a room to yourself?. If you want such a room mainly for study, work, undisturbed calls and similar reasons, there is nothing wrong with that.
A space that is primarily intended for conducting personal affairs, is a great way to maintaining interests, hobbies and passions, which you do not share with your partner. The person you live with can get bored quickly, so it's important that you both devote some time to your own things.
dr. Wish suggests asking yourself the following questions before making an important decision:
- Do I want a room to myself because I want to avoid having sex when I'm not in the mood?
- On a scale of 1 to 10, how confident am I that this person is truly genuine?
- What things bother me about her/him?
It may well happen that because of feelings in the subconscious you inadvertently avoid obligations that are not in your interest. In case you are not sure if you want your own room for the right reasons, pay attention to your feelings. ask yourself what you actually gain by moving into a shared home – a life partner or just a human body with which you will feel safe? Also consider the things you will lose.
In any case, it is useful to check all possible developments of situations. This will make it easier for you to decide which option is best for you and your relationship. It is important to think about it thoroughly talk to your partner and you come to a meaningful conclusion.
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