Love is a complicated thing - today you love, tomorrow you feel empty. And then you face the truth called the world of singles. Yes, it will probably be strange living with your new status for a while, but there will come a time when you will have to start seeing dating as normal again. And prepare for a new relationship!
It never occurs to anyone who has loved sincerely and parted ways gave his heart IMMEDIATELY to another person. While your wounds are healing, this is the time when you will discover yourself and yourself prepared for a new chapter in life. This way you will protect yourself from the additional pain that could experiences in a new relationship (because you can't forget your ex) and you will avoid causing pain to the person who is in an unhappy relationship with you. And this, you will agree, is the most you can do - YOU PLAY FAIRLY (to self and others).
When you will feel that your life it no longer revolves around one person, rather YOU, this is the first step to healing your heart and possibly finding new love.
Do you even know when you are really ready for a new relationship? If you manage to answer affirmatively to more than half of the signs in the list below, you are obviously ready to turn over a new leaf in her life.
5 things that show you are READY for a new relationship...
You like the thought of romantic moments with someone who is NOT YOUR EX.
If you find that you often dream about the cute neighbor you met in the block, or you realized how beautiful a smile your colleague has, your heart is obviously ready to meet potential partners. If you have a certain person in mind, it's best to find a way to subtly show them that you're interested in them... and of course you'll have to flirt AGAIN.
You are happy that someone showed interest in you.
Even though you may not be interested in the person who is interested in you, the thought of someone looking at you in a different way makes you happy and gives you hope that your better half is getting closer.
You feel butterflies in your stomach.
If the thought of a certain person puts you in a good mood, makes you smile and happy, and you feel butterflies in your stomach that you thought had already flown away, something is happening in your heart. It feels magical, doesn't it?
You remember less and less moments with your ex.
You started looking to the future instead of focusing on the past moments with your ex. Life seems much better and more positive to you without your ex, and you've finally figured out what really makes you happy.
You learned to be alone.
It is quite normal that your friends will not always be within reach and you will have to do many things on your own. In your company. And as you know, most people can't get used to being alone after a breakup. When you realize that going to the store, walking in the park or watching a movie in the cinema without company is a completely normal thing, this is a sign that you have completely come out of the phase of mourning and missing.
