What is a sexy man like? What is the first thing we notice about a man? Eyes? Hair? A smile? Hands? Do we have our own type of sculpted male, or do we not really care about a man's physical appearance and prefer to study his set of qualities, values and character traits? Here, each individual can answer for himself. But there are certain qualities in a man that make a man "sexy" the moment he walks into a room - and that's a real "sexy" man.
1. Strength
Not only toned and well-shaped muscles, but also inner strength is important. One that gives a man confidence. There is nothing sexier than a man who is down to earth, able to control impulsiveness and anger, and radiates confidence without a hint of arrogance.
2. Vulnerability
A man is not strong if he is not vulnerable. This means that a man can say what he wants, what he's afraid of, how he feels, what he's been through and what it is that throws him to the ground. Without transparency, we cannot expect true intimacy, the ingredient that keeps sex "sexy" even after the initial infatuation has dissipated.
3. Integrity
This is the trait that separates boys from men. While we may initially be blinded by infatuation, various womanizers, bastards and narcissists may turn us on with lies and cheap tricks. There is nothing "sexy" about a man who pretends to be someone he is not, and there is nothing "sexy" about such a man who is not capable of deeper emotions and who does not care how many people he will hurt.
4. Intellect
A beautiful mind is "sexy". A high IQ is great, but it's only part of being smart. Critical thinking, an unquenchable desire to learn and a gift for good self-expression. Sometimes a man can conquer a woman much faster and better with his mind than with his looks.
5. A sense of humor
A man without a sense of humor is like a cold shower. Ultra-serious men and those who rarely laugh have a much harder time establishing a connection and bond with another human being. Mind and humor go hand in hand - smart people know how to see humor in situations. Even if a man is incredibly "sexy", this "sexiness" quickly dissipates when the partner's humor is incongruous.
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6. Warmth
It's hard to relate to a man who hides inside the walls. Compassion, empathy, a smile and an easy laugh are qualities that disarm in an instant. Warmth and kindness are "sexy".
7. Generosity
Miserliness is anything but "sexy": not only stingy with money, but also with emotions. While extravagance with money and emotions indicates a lack of self-control, counting coins and being stingy indicates that a person prioritizes things over people. Men from Stiska should not be so stingy even between the sheets.
8. Affection
Love is warmth turned into action. A kiss on the neck as he walks past us, a nice hug, his head on our chest like it's one of his favorite places to be... A man who loves touch that may or may not lead to sex, is "sexy".
9. Uncompromising attention
Uncompromising mindfulness is the ability to be aware and present in the moment – even when the moment is painful. This is the best form of ambition because it requires a commitment to personal growth and is not for the faint of heart. A man who exudes quiet confidence is able to stay calm and focused in the face of challenges. "Sexy".
10. Partnership
Few women want a man who dominates her everywhere. A reasonable man, ready for compromises, reciprocity, communication and respect is much more "sexy".
11. Sexual confidence
True sexual confidence has nothing to do with penis size. This is what creates an intimate environment, the ability to read the partner's body, a sensual and long look into the eyes, vulnerability and presence in the moment.
