Love cannot justify everything that happens between you, even if you love each other. If you don't face the problems and solve them, they will become bigger than love. Reality has this nasty habit of being bigger than anything you imagine your reality should be.
At the end of a relationship, do you wonder how you could have loved someone even though they treated you badly? Whenever the end comes, there is only one answer to this question - love. When you love someone more than yourself and they love you more, it hurts day in and day out in all kinds of ways. Then ask yourself – do you love each other
A person must be able to love himself in order to give love to others. And since this is not the case in your case, you will have to accept the fact that the person you love does not love himself. Which means he doesn't love you and your love is returned in painful ways that you shouldn't have to endure!
Never, because you know how to love, accept, forgive, give all possibilities and be patient. If your partner doesn't take advantage of the opportunities you've given him to find himself, solve his problems and be a better person, a better partner, you are only prolonging the agony.
You will realize that loving someone with all your heart and soul is not a reason to stay with them. That you have many more reasons to stay alone with yourself, because only within yourself can you find peace and love. Such a partner cannot give you all this.
Love is not drawing reality in a dream. Photo: Bruno Van Der Kraan / UnsplashYou will realize that in the name of love, you should not sacrifice your life and submit it to the whimsical needs of someone who does not know love and does not give it.
Your heart will heal and become stronger. Maybe you won't stop loving that person you're leaving. And you may never meet anyone to love like that again, but, you have to go. You have to because you love yourself, because what this person is giving you is not enough, it is toxic. Your love is not enough.
One of the most difficult and painful decisions in life is to leave someone you love. But you should, because actually you choose between you and him. Now it's your turn.
In terms of self-love, you must not accept that your life will be in the service of his life, which revolves around chaos, selfishness, instability, indecisiveness, destructive impulsiveness, immaturity and lack of responsibility.
You shouldn't do that to yourself. Because someone who loves himself can't be in the service of someone else all the time, because that's madness, unless you're pretending and lying to yourself.
Love is still love full of understanding, acceptance and forgiveness, which you must offer to yourself as well as to your partner. Don't forget this!
