Ironically, here are 9 tips from a divorced man. Lessons he learned through the process of loss after divorcing his wife of 16 years. I would do many things differently now!
After the breakup, he realized how little it would take to prevent this from happening. Love and partnership it is not self-evident, when you begin to accept them in such a light, relations cool down and relationship problems follow.
Psychologist Gerald Rodgers after divorcing his wife, he realized that he had made a lot of mistakes in his marriage. He would do many things differently now, which is why he wrote advice on how to solve a marriage:
1. Choose love
That's basically the only advice you need. If you decide to love sincerely, nothing can threaten your marriage.
2. Don't worry about money
Money is a game. Find a way to work and serve as a team. This will strengthen your marriage.
I didn't know how. Now I know, but I was left alone! Photo: Christian Buehner/Unsplash3. Grow and develop together
Find common goals, dreams and visions that will bring you together.
4. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and be open
Just be willing to tell the truth and hear it.
5. Be honest
With emotions, with words, with the heart.
6. Don't be an idiot
Don't be afraid of love, intimacy, your mistakes and hers. Understand that no one is perfect.
7. Time for fun and dates
This must never end - never take a wife for granted! Remember she chose you.
8. Protect your heart
You've vowed to protect her heart, but watch yours too. Love yourself so that others will love you.
9. Fall in love with her all over again every day
She has changed, she is no longer the way you first met her. Make her love you like she did on that fateful day. Fight for her love every day.
