Texting is an art, especially if you want to win a man's heart. What if I told you that there are some unusual text messages that really attract a man? Experts say that you can attract attention and create sparks with a simple but original message.
So what is that secret message that men love? And why does it work better than classic messages? Read on to find out how to surprise him.
Men, like women, love attention and emotional connection. But it's not just the classic "I miss you" but more original and unexpected messages. For example, a message like: "Just your smile brightens my day." it is direct, but at the same time emphasizes the value of small things, which fascinates men.
In addition, experts recommend focusing on active invitations. One suggestion is: "Saturday, the hike and me - are you coming along?" This shows that you want to spend time with him, but without undue pressure. Such messages show your independence and relaxation, which is very attractive.
It is also important to express your feelings honestly. Men love authenticity, so there's nothing wrong with sending something a little more emotional once in a while, like: "No amount of time would be enough for you because I would want you forever." With such messages, you show the depth of your feelings, which not only surprises the man, but also connects him to you on a more personal level.
Finally, remember that men respond to compliments. When you praise him for something specific, for example: "Your way of solving problems is really inspiring,” you not only boost his confidence, but also remind him how important he is to you.
Although it may seem that men are not as emotional as women, the truth is that they crave validation, love and attention. So the next time you're thinking about what to send, choose something that isn't classic but stands out.
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"I think about our last date and I can't stop smiling."
This SMS works on an emotional level. Remembering past, pleasant moments creates an emotional connection and triggers dopamine, the happy hormone. A man will feel satisfied because you are letting him know that he spent quality time with you. Plus, who doesn't like to be the cause of a smile?
“Hey, I found something you might like!”
Here you act as the Sherlock Holmes of his desires. By doing this, you are sending him a signal that you really know what he likes and that you are thinking of him even when you are not together. It's a thoughtful act that will get him excited while strengthening your emotional bond. This is a subtle way to show him that you don't care.
"Remind me to tell you something funny later!"
This message creates a pleasant tension - for him it will be like waiting for the end of his favorite series. Arousing his curiosity is a great way to keep him on your mind throughout the day. Not only will he try to figure out what's so funny, but he'll be happy that you reminded him of him with something fun.
"You could really use a beer today!"
With this message, you create a relaxed, friendly atmosphere, which is attractive to many men. You let him know that you are attentive to his needs and want him to have a moment of relaxation. It's a subtle way of expressing concern, without the over-the-top sentimentality that some men may not like the most.
"What would you rather do now?"
With this question, you open the door to a conversation where he can express himself and share his wishes. Psychologically, you make him feel that you value him and respect his interests. It's an easy way to start an in-depth conversation without forcing it, which can bring him even closer to you.
"Your smile still puts me in a good mood."
This compliment is not just flattery, it expresses very specifically what you like most about him. Men, although they may not admit it, love compliments, especially those about something personal. You're building his confidence while letting him know that you notice the little things he might take for granted.
