When we start dating, we usually can't wait to share our joy and love with those closest to us. But sometimes it happens that the other person does not share this desire and wants to hide the relationship. There can be many reasons for this, and it can carry with it very negative influences. This means that your partner is hiding your relationship! How to react?
When we start with someone see regularly, it is completely normal to feel desire, to make the chosen one presented and about the new relationship reported to those closest to you. However, many people have already experienced that the person they were dating it had no purpose or is sharing communications with the public avoided.
If you feel like this is happening to you, it's completely normal that you are suspicious and you wonder if such a relationship even exists future.
Have you found yourself in a secret relationship? Photo: Cottonbro / PexelsReasons for concealing a relationship
We live in a time of time dating apps, social networks and abundance opportunities to get to know each other of the opposite sex. Many people therefore want their own at least for a while leave options open, so it is dating several different people. That would him rumors of course they prevented her from being busy, that's why she wants to meet someone already, of course to cover up.
Of course, it is completely different whether you are with a person in a serious relationship or it's someone you've only been with some dates. In the second case, it is not with open options nothing wrong in principle, but only if you do with it you agree so are you and it is communication between you clear.
Another reason may be hidden in that person worries, to introduce you to those close to you too fast and then they should to explain, what went wrong. Caution In itself, it is not a sign of concern, but such behavior must not continue too long, but you should also consider own feelings.
You need to be aware that your partner's behavior is in no way not related to you and that there is no reason to have because of it feelings of inferiority. At the same time, you should know that you will be with someone who makes you like that emotions, felt hard safe and accepted.
There is a third reason to hide the relationship: maybe your partner is still in contact with ex-girlfriends. In such a case, you cannot continue the relationship not recommended: you deserve someone who will only you, so it won't wavered between you and the option from of the past.
You deserve someone who makes you feel accepted Photo: Orione Conceicao / PexelsHow to react to such behavior?
First of all, we suggest that you and your partner talk and to him explain, what kind feelings his concealment of the relationship arouses in you. It is important that clear up, what are you guys like? goals for the future: if the partner v a serious relationship does not see, it is imperative that you reconsider if you want to have such an attitude to continue. If your wishes different ones, namely staying in this kind of "relationship" is completely pointless.
It is also important that from realistic angle assess what kind of concealment it is. If the partner is used to more slow progress of the relationship and that he introduces his girlfriend to his friends only after certain time, this is in principle not a cause for fear - of course, if you like this method of obtaining he answers. But if he does not want to meet in place, restaurants, cafes… and in addition hides its activity on social networks, then we advise you that such an attitude interrupt.
