How quickly can it happen that your partner starts manipulating you. And because you're so in love with him, you might not even notice it. So pay attention to these words of his!
In relationships where jealousy is present, manipulation also quickly occurs. If at first glance, a beautiful partner often confuses you emotionally and convinces you of things that you otherwise don't believe in and would never do, you are probably in a relationship with a manipulator.
Chances are you've heard one of these phrases before, so be it pay attention to the spoken words next time and then you react differently than usual.
1. "You exaggerate and overanalyze."
If your partner deliberately provokes negative emotions in you, and then claims that he did nothing wrong, you can be sure that you are not exaggerating. The manipulator will convince you to start doubting your intuition, and will deliberately make you doubt yourself, and then criticize you for your doubts.
2. "I hate it when you dramatize."
Every time you want to confide in him your feelings, worries and problems that are also related to him, he will do everything in his power to make you feel very bad about it. He will do the same when you react to his nasty behavior. The manipulator does not want to change. He will force you to do what he tells you to do. He will forever play the victim, even in situations where he has made a mistake and is at fault.
3. "You're too sensitive."
The manipulator will give you a lot of attention and care, and then the ignoring and rejection will begin. Because you will be unhappy, you will show it to him, and he will criticize you for it and accuse you of being too sensitive and having too high expectations.
4. "You get it all wrong."
In every relationship there are misunderstandings, but the manipulator creates them on purpose. They will deliberately challenge you and then blame you for causing the conflict.
5. "You are crazy."
When you finally realize that he is manipulating you and the manipulator realizes that you know what game he is playing, he will insult you in every possible way. It will make you question your sanity. He will tell you that you are crazy and jealous just to make you stop questioning what is actually the truth.
