Despite the fact that we claim that love knows no boundaries, society still finds it inappropriate to see a young man and an older woman together. Today, there are more and more such relationships, and there are many reasons why some men are only attracted to older women.
1. Older women have control over their hormones.
Of course, this does not include menopausal women. Older women are less prone to dramatic outbursts than younger women. This means less emotional pressure for men, as women have learned over the years how to control their emotions. Men have radio simplicity and older women know how to stay calm in stressful situations.
2. They have more experience.
It is clear that experience comes with age, even when it comes to sex. Older women know very well what to do in bed, and they are also well aware of their needs. Their confidence, freedom and tendency to experiment is what attracts young guys. Older women have outgrown the insecurity associated with their own appearance and know how to enjoy sex. Young men love it and appreciate the dominance of older women.
3. They are not obsessed with their bodies.
Men like women with real curves and those who are not obsessed with their bodies. Older women have learned over the years how to accept their appearance and their bodies and have no self-esteem issues. They are aware of their shortcomings, but they also know that this does not affect happiness.
4. Your partner doesn't have to be a 'boyfriend'.
When there is no pressure associated with a long-term relationship, people (especially men) can enjoy the relationship because they feel freer. Older women have mostly already been in a serious relationship, maybe even married, and a serious relationship is less important to them now. They just want to enjoy themselves. On the other hand, young women are always defining their relationship and thinking about the 'next step' - this is also what repels men, as it creates a certain pressure.
5. They are independent.
Older women are independent especially in financial sense, most of them already have their own apartment/house and car. For younger men, this does not present pressure and responsibility, as they do not have to take care of the woman.
6. They know how to show authority.
The dominant female partner is often part of the erotic fantasy of many men, and an older woman is exactly that - an authority figure dominating a younger partner. Men find it sexy when a woman takes control.
7. They value their younger partners.
Older women enjoy a relationship with a younger partner and appreciate him as a person, do not point out their mistakes and do not intend to change him (which often happens with younger women). Older women have neither time nor nerves for this, they know how to let go and enjoy an adventure with a younger man. They appreciate what they have and don't complain.
