Have you ever felt like you found something special, but it was all just an illusion? That the words you heard promised more than the person was willing to deliver?
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I've long believed that true love means persevering. That if you're patient enough, if you try hard enough, if you give enough of yourself, everything will work out. That things will get better one day, that one day you'll see how much you mean to me and love me the way I loved you.
Why does a certain thought trigger a wave of emotions? Without warning, without question – just a touch that cannot be ignored. Perhaps while walking by the water, you suddenly feel a peace you weren't looking for, or while looking at the stars, you are overwhelmed by a feeling you can't quite put a name to.
Have you ever thought about what I was going through when you turned away? When I called your name and you were silent? Today I no longer blame you. Instead, I gratefully say: thank you.
Nothing is accidental. The people who are no longer a part of your life are left where they belong – in the past. Their absence is not a matter of debate or question. It is a fact. The past is a place for closed stories, not for reliving what no longer matters.
Returning to the person who hurt you? The answer lies deep within you. The wound that this person inflicted on you was not accidental. It was a sign that you should not ignore.
Pain is not an illusion. It is not something we make up or imagine. It is real. It comes in many forms and intensities, physical and emotional. Sometimes it is obvious and recognizable – like a wound that refuses to heal. Other times it is subtle, almost imperceptible, but it silently gnaws at you inside until it demands your full attention.
Why do I always end up alone? Why does something inside me fail every time I try to have a deep relationship?
The human mind loves control. The need for predictability and the feeling of being in control of our lives are almost instinctual. But how do we act when we find ourselves in a world where so much is beyond our control? When faced with unpredictability, the key is not to hold on tight, but to learn how to let go.
When you hurt me the first time, I stayed. Why do we persist in places where we are hurt again and again?
Why does love sometimes hurt us so much? Isn't love what should make us happy, lift us up, and connect us? Love doesn't hurt!
Everything you feel right now is part of your journey. Your pain, your moments of silence, your questions – all of this is part of the story that guides you forward.