Returning to the person who hurt you? The answer lies deep within you. The wound that this person inflicted on you was not accidental. It was a sign that you should not ignore.
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Pain is not an illusion. It is not something we make up or imagine. It is real. It comes in many forms and intensities, physical and emotional. Sometimes it is obvious and recognizable – like a wound that refuses to heal. Other times it is subtle, almost imperceptible, but it silently gnaws at you inside until it demands your full attention.
Why do I always end up alone? Why does something inside me fail every time I try to have a deep relationship?
The human mind loves control. The need for predictability and the feeling of being in control of our lives are almost instinctual. But how do we act when we find ourselves in a world where so much is beyond our control? When faced with unpredictability, the key is not to hold on tight, but to learn how to let go.
When you hurt me the first time, I stayed. Why do we persist in places where we are hurt again and again?
Why does love sometimes hurt us so much? Isn't love what should make us happy, lift us up, and connect us? Love doesn't hurt!
Everything you feel right now is part of your journey. Your pain, your moments of silence, your questions – all of this is part of the story that guides you forward.
Sometimes life puts a period where we wanted a comma, and that's totally fine.
Sometimes life doesn't deliver what you want, but what you need? Yes, he, he was everything I needed!
Do you ever feel like memories are more vivid than the moments you're experiencing right now? That you're stuck somewhere between "goodbye" and "go on," like in a song you sing over and over again? Why doesn't your heart follow logic?
"Whataboutism" or the attention-diversion effect is a communication tactic in which the interlocutor does not respond directly to criticism, but diverts the topic elsewhere - most often with a counter-accusation. It is an evasive strategy where the key thesis becomes irrelevant, as the discussion shifts to the question: "What about them, when they did the same thing?"
We all dream of the moment when we can breathe deeply and feel an unwavering inner peace. But in real life, we often fall into the routine of work, expectations of others, and unfulfilled desires.