"Give those you love wings to fly, roots to return and a reason to stay." - The Dalai Lama
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Don't let anyone convince you that love is hard, that love MUST hurt. True love should never leave you in doubt. True love shouldn't make you fall asleep with tears in your eyes. True love shouldn't ruin your life. True love should set you free! So why should you settle for less?
Modern society is oriented towards the search for perfection. We want perfect vacations, perfect children, perfect jobs and, last but not least, perfect partners.
Love is a complicated thing. One moment it takes you to heaven, and the next it throws you down to the real ground. One moment you think you really like a certain person, and the next you see that maybe you're just not as interested in them as you think.
All relationships in our lives require effort and work. However, not all "work" is good!
"My client divorced her husband, where he insisted that he also take his mother on his honeymoon. Reason? Because mom STILL breastfed him! Yes, the husband, a grown man, was still breastfed by the mother."
"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." – Alfred Tennyson
"For the first time in my life, I found something that I can truly love. I found you.” - Charlotte Bronte in Jane Eyre
People in the most loving and long-lasting relationships master these 5 things better than anyone else.
When you've been in a relationship for a while, you're definitely not the same person you were when you first saw each other. You are evolving. You are changing. You're transforming into a better version of yourself, and that's a good thing. This means resisting stagnation and staying in your comfort zone.
Don't let these relationships take a toll on your mental health.
It is impossible for her and her partner to have only points in common. They are two different people, so they will have different opinions. There will be points of divergence. And that's totally fine. She shouldn't have the same personality. In all of this, the most important thing is to respect each other's hobbies and interests. You have to care at least a little bit about things that your partner cares about.