"It doesn't matter how long we've lived with limitations. If we walk into a dark room and turn on the light, it doesn't matter if the room has been in darkness for a day, a week, or ten thousand years. We turn on the light and it's illuminated. When we realize our ability for love and happiness - the light is on." – Sharon Salzberg
There comes a period in a woman's life when men are simply not interested in her anymore. Neither intimately, nor generally. Her experiences with men throughout her life push her to a situation where she becomes indifferent to them.
What happened to her? Why did she make that decision? Simple - she reached a point in her life when she decided she had enough frustration and problems with men.
Then a woman she closes her heart and no longer allows men to enter her life. She doesn't trust them, she doesn't even imagine anymore that there is someone out there who might love her or he her.
These are periods after disappointments in partner relationships. Periods in which men hurt her, whether in her teenage years or mature years. A time where she lost faith in herself and in men because she believed he was someone who would love and respect her. But instead she received insults, blows, lies, pain and disappointment.
All she wants is to be loved and accepted for who she is. Because the love and passion that comes from her soul make her attractive, beautiful, radiant. If she lives in the past and its pain, she becomes bitter and no longer wants men around her, let alone in her intimate life.
When the right man finds his way into her life, the man who loves her regardless of her wounds and pain, the one who finds his way through the armor she has built around her heart, she will love again.
She realizes that she needs a man, until her last breath, as long as she lives and feels, because love is in her and never dies, no matter how hard she tries not to love anymore. You simply cannot say "no" to love.
No matter what has happened to you, in your subconscious you will always want to be loved and to love. You were born to love – yourself, him, her, and to be loved in the same way. Don't hide the love inside you. Love!
