"You can't be lonely if you like the person you're alone with." - Wayne Dyer
You are a wonderful human being, determined and ambitious. You are fully aware of what you want from life and what you can offer your partner. But you can't find love and you don't even know why.
Here are 9 reasons why you're still single.
1. Don't settle for less than you deserve
Don't allow mediocrity in your life, especially when it comes to partner relationships. This is because you know how to maintain high standards. And if being in a relationship with someone that should lower them, you'd rather be alone. You are looking for a person who will meet or even exceed your expectations.
2. You know what you want out of life
You are at a point in your life where you know exactly what you want. Your mind is focused on the things you want to achieve and the goals you are striving to achieve. While you might think that this ambition and determination would help you find the right partner, it often turns out to be a hindrance. Finding love while building a successful career is undoubtedly challenging. Unfortunately, sometimes you are so devoted to your goals that you forget about your personal life.
3. You never have enough time
Often, your schedule is so full that you don't even have time for yourself. And since your days are usually pretty busy, dating eventually becomes a myth. Adding a new person to your schedule can be quite difficult, both for you and for the person. But remember - difficult does not mean impossible!
4. You are acting inaccessible
To many people, especially those who do not know you personally, you seem unreachable. In their minds, you are simply too self-sufficient. Unfortunately, instead of going the extra mile to meet your standards, many will quit. Not because you're not worth the effort, but because they're not as ambitious as you are. To those who are not as passionate about their lives as you are, you are intimidating.
5. You expect the kind of love you give
You are loving, generous and kind. Because of your benevolent nature, you only see the good in others. But what can hold you back from finding true love is the fact that you expect everyone else to be just like you. Unfortunately, this is not the case in life. It doesn't work that way. People have different mindsets and finding someone as passionate, ambitious and kind-hearted as you is is one of the biggest challenges in your life.
6. Your confidence can be intimidating
You know what you want and what you can offer the other person. Many people have not yet reached your mentality and are confused by your confidence, afraid of you. But don't lose hope.
After all, you don't need someone who can't be with such a strong and confident person.
7. You are perfectly fine on your own
Being alone doesn't scare you. You know how to stand on your own two feet without relying on others. Moreover, life has taught you that you are not born to be half of someone. You are a person who knows how to take care of yourself very well. However, finding a partner may be a bit more of a challenge than you thought. Mainly because you don't need someone to complete you, but to grow with you.
8. You are extremely patient
Although patience is a valuable personal trait, too much patience can cause you problems. Do you often find yourself in a situation where you put up with someone's toxic behavior for too long? This may be due to your endless patience and unique attitude of always seeing the good in everyone. This way you can find out who is really worth your patience and time.
9. You attract the wrong people
Because of your infinite patience, often your vibes attract the wrong people. The kind that will use your kindness to their advantage. People who will take advantage of your pure heart. So you have to be very careful about who you let into your life because you may not recognize their true intentions until it is too late.
