Why do you find yourself in relationships where you keep quiet about your needs? Hoping someone will notice you? How long will you keep giving everything without getting anything in return?
Somewhere inside you, there is still a quiet spark of hope that someone will see everything you are. That they will see through the walls you have built from disappointments. But in reality, you may have known for a long time that you are struggling around a love that does not return, that there is no point. And there is something very quiet, but very painful about that. Something that tires the soul.
Don't try to be enough for someone who is looking for something else.
You can try harder, give more, keep quiet, but that never changes the fact that the person will not leave you in doubt. If you have to convince yourself that he loves you, he never had you. And it's not your job to become someone else to deserve something that should come naturally.
Love, it does not cause unrest. It does not demand proof. It does not leave a void after every conversation. It is calm. Immovable in its certainty. It does not confuse you. It does not compare. It does not go away quietly.
You don't always have to understand why someone doesn't stay.
Sometimes the most painful thing is that there is no answer. It's not about the wrong time, not about too much or too little. It's simply that someone didn't know how to see you. It's not your fault. There are hearts that are not ready to love what you are..
It doesn't mean you're too much. It just means you've come with true love to a place where there's no room for it. And once you understand that, you don't hold it against anyone, not them, not yourself. You don't force it anymore. You just quietly walk away. With the wholeness that you wanted to share, but will now keep for yourself, for someone else.
True love doesn't need adjustment.
Someone who truly feels you won't manipulate you.. He won't push you aside. He won't need explanations for why you feel what you feel. He will accept you with everything you have - no negotiations, no excuses, no delays.
When you fall in love with someone who can't love you back, you start to think that your love is the problem. But it's not. The problem is that you've been giving it away where it can't grow. And the greatest strength you have is to admit to yourself - I've given enough. I've waited enough. Now I'm going.
There is a love that won't hurt you.
It won't raise questions in you. It won't exhaust you with silent rejections. It will simply exist. In you. And between you.
It won't be a competition. It won't be a test. It won't be an effort. Just presence. Deep, gentle, sure. And then you'll know that love never has to be chased. Just create a space for it to find you. When you stop running from yourself.
